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Broke up and still came to look, but didn't come back to dating. What's wrong with him?

Orbiting Relationships:

Stop being a "star" in the orbit of an unappreciable person! 🪐✨

You...Have you ever been?

Broke up. It's been a long time.

But he also shows up on alert throughout!

Click to see every Story. Click to like a ceremony.

But never say hello, never talk, never exist in real life.

This condition is called "Orbiting."

Is that he won't disappear anywhere

But he wouldn't come back.

It's like a planet orbiting around us.

Let us wonder, "Is he still thinking?"

Get up, girl! Hit each other! 💥

It's not because he loves it.

Or waiting for the opportunity to come back

But it's a "foul" symptom.

Or just "Czech ratings."

He just needs space in our eyes.

So that we don't forget him.

While he's already taken his life anywhere.

Letting him come "orbit" is like this.

It's a mental health loss.

Like we opened the door

Let the wind pass until the heart trembles.

But no one walked in.

If it's so degrading,

Just "shut down the orbit system"!

Stop wondering what time he hit our Story.

Stop being happy to see his first name come up.

The block got the block. Mute got the mute.

Take the time to manage the charm for new people

Or go to sleep with a beautiful face mask

Better sit as a bike center (gosh! universe)

Let people who "have the status of just a viewer" play around.

Remember that...

We are the sun with light in itself.

Not a planet to wait for anyone to circle candles around to prove its worth! 💅🔥

# Orbiting # Relationship # Moufon # Relationship Advice # Stop shining

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