想太多的人 真的会错过很多东西

以前的我

什么都想很多

但后来我才懂

想太多 不是谨慎

很多时候 只是拖延

你以为你在思考

其实你在逃避

现在我只做一件事

先做,再调整

问题不是你不够厉害

是你一直没有开始

#女生思考 #自我成长 #停止内耗

#想太多 #拖延症 #真实分享

#改变自己 #生活感悟 #情绪共鸣

#马来西亚女生 #新加坡生活

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