whhyy does it feel as if I'm the only one that seriously wants a relationship yet everyone is already taken. anybody else feel this way?
It’s a common feeling to think you’re the only person seriously seeking a relationship when it seems like everyone else around you is already paired up. From my experience, this perception often comes from focusing on social circles where couple statuses stand out or from comparing your timeline with others’. Many people go through stages where they feel isolated in their desire for companionship, especially when friendships revolve around couples. One helpful approach is expanding your social networks beyond your usual group. Joining new clubs, interest groups, or online communities can open doors to meeting people who share your relationship goals. It’s also important to balance your focus on finding a relationship with building your own happiness and interests, which naturally increases your confidence and attractiveness. Remember, the feeling that "everyone is already taken" can fade as your social context changes and as you meet more people. Engaging in activities that bring you joy, improving self-awareness, and practicing patience usually lead to meaningful connections. Sharing this feeling with others often reveals that many are in the same boat, even if they don’t openly say so. You’re definitely not alone in seriously wanting a relationship.

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