Aftermath of Isaiah…. (Update)

I had moved on and focused on my books, 📚 podcast episodes and more. A lot of people do ponder the what if thoughts and have flashbacks of a traumatic situation. It is understandable to remember what you encountered and what you were faced with. At the end of it all, you matter. 🩵 nobody deserves to be abused. Nobody deserves to be hurt by someone who they claim to be their lover. Go where you are loved. Go where you are seen. Go where you are appreciated. Go where you are wanted. Go where you do not have to fight for love.

I have forgiven Isaiah but would I ever take him back? Nope. Going back is an understatement. I would never. Ever. Not even if he was the last human being on earth. People who abuse others need to seek help. It’s not normal. It isn’t okay. Just because your life isnt going well for you, does not give you the okay to harm others.

This is called G R O W T H. 🩵 Hearing stories like this, women have gone back because of the comfortability and the vulnerability they have had with their person. It’s understood. It’s no judgment. Me, per se, I cannot and will not. I am not an abusive person, myself so why would I allow that? Why would I accept it? I have published my childrens book 📖 . I’ve spoken at a school, got my childrens book in there as well as other schools. 🏫 it’s nothing that needs to be said or spoken about. I was taught another valuable lesson. Women who are in the position I used to be in, he’s not worth your life. He’s not worth it, period. Leave that man alone and go get you one that will give you the world, willingly and will love you to the moon and back.

There are so many people in this world, out of the billion we come across, there will be ONE for everyone. 💚 nobody has to encounter abuse to simply seek love. If you have to be abused first to be loved, you’re at the wrong address. Leave immediately! Nobody deserves to get beat on. Nobody deserves to be led on. Everyone done normalized everything that shouldn’t be normalized in the real world. Normalizing toxicity and being toxic is not love. If you aren’t mentally, physically, or even spiritually ready, a relationship isnt for you. It’s a lot that needs to be taken into consideration when getting into a relationship. State the triggers in the very beginning. State what it is that you want. *listen to a Madea play for advice if you need to*

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