Part 1 to this true story
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Click the link and it’ll take you to part one. This is the story that everyone’s been liking up. Let me put yall on real fast. First and foremost, this is in fact a true story. This took place March 2023. This was when I had finally felt the need to give him a chance. He started smelling himself. His moods would shift like a female.
Quick back story ;
I wanted to break up because he was becoming very violent and too much over the phone. I told him I wanted to break up and I hung up and blocked him. I had come off of work that day, not too sure what he was feeling like to just pop up at my house, but he showed face. He wanted to speak so I stood in the hallway, i dont know what came over him that day, but he had slapped me. I was in fact traumatized by someone who I thought cared about me. He showed his ass. Not to mention, I had to bring my uncle up here for him because I wasn’t sure what he was feeling like after doing that. So much emotions ran through me during this time.
If yall do not listen to anybody else, leave that person the FIRST time they hit you. Do not wait. Do not stick around. I left him the first time and he has been on one for a while. He tried instagram and no caller id. After I wasn’t responding or picking up any calls or text messages, he got the hint. If you have issues within yourself, it’s no need to engage in a relationship . Heal yourself first before you bleed on someone that you genuinely care about.
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