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Advantages / disadvantages of having a brother and we are the youngest

Advantages ✅✅

Bodyguards and Personal Dependencies: A brother often has the instinct to protect and care for his younger brother, making you feel safe and supportive when having problems at school or in everyday life.

Learn from my mistakes: You can observe what my brother made a mistake and the penalties he received so as not to repeat his mistakes, called a "life tutor," paving the way.

Get privileged faster: Parents tend to be less strict with their younger children because they already have the understanding and experience of parenting. You may be allowed to do things (such as having a cell phone or traveling) at a younger age than your brother asked for.

Improve Well Socializing Skills: Growing Up Among Adults and Older Elders, Making Younger Children Often Habitual, Cheerful, sociable, and Skilled in Better Negotiations to Survive

Have a mentor on men or wading things: Having a brother helps you better understand a man's perspective, or do fun and challenging activities such as sports or skits outside the home.

Reduce Expectancy Pressure: Parents tend to throw more expectations on the eldest, giving the youngest child more freedom to choose the life path or follow their own preferences.

What direction are you feeling about your relationship with your brother now, or what events have led you to look for these advantages?

The downside ❎❎

Be compared and always seen as "young": A brother often does better or does it first, causing the youngest child to often be compared and seen as "still young."

You have to give up (for no reason): It is often cultivated that "you are a brother, you have to give up." It causes feelings of frustration and feelings of unfairness.

Less attention is received: When there are multiple siblings, parents have less time or resources to divide for each, causing the younger child to receive insufficient attention.

It takes a brother's extension: toys, clothes, or equipment are usually second-hand from a brother, making no new things or things self-styled.

Being teased by a brother: A brother often teased or raped his younger brother, making him feel unable to fight as a child.

Lack of freedom to make decisions: Often manipulated by a brother or parent or decided instead because of seeing less experience.

However, these problems often diminish as they grow, and often become intimate and eventually dependent.

Friends / brothers / sisters

Is elder, middle brother, who? I will come up for you.

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