Notice how it looks good, but it's poisonous.

Good idea from the book. Toxic speech is like a good hope, but poisonous. ☠️💬

1. Be careful of words 🗣️

Sometimes just joking or joking, but for another person it can hurt deeply. The words are irreversible. Think a little before you speak, better than regret later.

2. Speak instead of feeling yourself. 💖

Don't say it for others, like, "He'll be fine," because we don't know. What you can say is, "How do we feel?" Like, "We're worried," or "We're glad." This is more straightforward and clear.

3. If accidentally speaking badly, 🙏

Everyone can miss it. I'm honestly sorry, "We say bad, I'm really sorry." A sincere apology is worth more than an excuse.

4. Don't be quick to judge. ⚖️

The same story can be viewed from many angles. Listen to it first and we will understand more. Judging too quickly can mislead us and hurt the relationship.

5. Don't use the word "it's normal." 😶

When someone finds something heavy, we say, "It's normal." It's like devaluing his feelings. Try to change it to "We understand that you're hurt." It will make him feel not alone.

6. Listen to your heart. 💭💓

Not all advice is right for us to listen to, but finally choose what we are most comfortable with.

7. Look for the good side. 🌈

Stop focusing on what is lacking and look at the good things that are already there, such as good friends, family, or health. These things can lighten your mind.

8. Protect yourself when attacked. 🛡️

If someone hurts us, it's not wrong to say "Don't say this to us," but it's to protect our hearts.

9. Sorry when you hurt someone, even if you didn't mean it. 💐

Sometimes we don't mean it, but what we say hits the other person, saying "I'm sorry, I didn't mean it" will make him realize that we see value in his feelings.

✨ Word is power, choose to create, not destroy. ✨

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