In 2025..I finally learnt that it is okay to rest🫠
For years, I worked myself to the bone — juggling 3 part-time jobs while studying, never giving myself permission to stop. Even on the days I wasn’t working, my mind wouldn’t rest. I’d feel guilty for “doing nothing,” like I always needed to prove I deserved my place, my goals, my future.
📚 I’d spend hours and hours studying.
💼 And when I wasn’t, I was working.
Every day felt like a checklist I had to get through.
I told myself this was necessary — that if I just kept going, success would come one day. And in some ways, that drive pushed me forward. But… it also left me exhausted.
Over the years, I realised something I wish I’d known earlier:
Rest is not laziness. Rest is part of growth.
🌸 Rest comes in different fonts. And for me, this weekend it looked like cycling by the beach. No need for perfection, no makeup, no dress-ups. Just me, barefaced, with a latte in hand — resetting and relaxing.
Slowed down… and suddenly, life felt lighter. 🌸
For once, I slowed down — just to feel the breeze, smile at the doggies, and breathe in the ocean air. Something I would have never noticed a few years agoo...
A few years ago, the old me would’ve been appalled at the idea of “wasting” time like this. But now? I see it as progress. I see it as success. Because success isn’t just working endlessly — it’s also being able to pause, breathe, and feel joy in the simplest moments.
And today, I can say I’m proud of myself for that. 🌅
Weekend cycling, barefaced & breezy — Any girlies up for thiss? 🌊☕🚲
alsoooooo am I the only one that felt this wayyy? or does anyone else resonatee
For a long time, I struggled with the idea of resting because I thought it meant I was being lazy or not productive enough. But over time, I realized that rest actually fuels creativity and helps me come back stronger. Taking breaks reduces burnout and recharges my energy for when I really need to focus. One way I found helpful to incorporate rest is by spending time outdoors, like cycling by the beach. Being in nature, away from screens and constant pressure, allows me to truly reset both my mind and body. This kind of active rest helps me feel refreshed without the guilt I once had about "wasting time." I also learned that rest doesn’t have to be perfectly planned or look a certain way. Sometimes, it’s just about sitting quietly with a cup of coffee and appreciating the little things around me. These pauses help me reconnect with myself and remind me that success isn’t just about working non-stop but about balance and well-being. I encourage anyone feeling overwhelmed or exhausted to try to give themselves permission to rest. It might feel uncomfortable at first, but honoring your need to pause is a powerful step toward long-term success and happiness.