investing is just not for me!?!

i used to think that investing was only for guys because it seemed so complicated to me... i thought as a girl i dont need to take unnecessary risks and lose my hard earned money.... and leave the scary part to guys....

i wanted more in life. i wanted to be financially free soooo to me money was VERY simple...

work hard ➝ earn ➝ save ➝ repeat

by the time I entered uni, I had a decent sum saved up and it just sat in my bank account honestly, I liked it that way. opening my banking app became my guilty pleasure 😅 — I LOVED seeing the number grow and it gave me a HUGE sense of security sooooo i guarded it with all my might. andddd I never ever EVER wanted that number to go down.

even after KNOWING that i need to do something with my money it took me 2 years to actually start investing because the fear was CRIPPLING MEEE...

it look me a long long time to unlearn what i grew up thinking about money... but i am glad i did... because i believe we deserve more than just getting by~~

4/20 Edited to

... Read moreWhen I first started thinking about money and investing, I totally related to the feeling of fear and hesitation. For a long time, I thought saving money in the bank was the safest and smartest choice—just like the article describes. The thought of watching my savings decrease because of investment risks was terrifying. But what I eventually realized is that clinging to a sense of false security by only saving money can limit your financial growth. Over time, I learned that investing isn’t just for experts or “guys” who seem to understand the complicated world of finance. It’s for anyone who wants to see their money work for them and achieve their goals faster. The key was to start small, educate myself gradually, and rethink my relationship with money and risk. One of the hardest parts was overcoming the mindset that equates risk with danger. Instead, I began seeing investing as a way to put my money in motion rather than letting it sit idle and lose value due to inflation. Reading and hearing stories like the one shared motivates me to stop letting fear dictate my financial decisions. I also found that building a community or having a mentor to talk about investment helped me a lot. Hearing real experiences and knowing that losses can happen but they are part of a learning curve gave me courage. If you feel stuck because of fear or traditional beliefs about money, trust me, it’s normal. But breaking free from the mindset of "just saving" and understanding how investing fits into your bigger financial freedom plan can change everything. You deserve to do more than just get by—taking that first step toward investing might feel scary, but it is definitely worth it for your future peace of mind and independence.

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