I like one guy, and another guy likes me.

Okay, Lemon8 fam, I totally get where you're coming from! It's like your heart is doing a tango, but your head is stuck trying to read minds, right? Dealing with a crush is already a rollercoaster, but when you throw in another person who likes *you*, it becomes a whole new level of complicated. Let's break down some thoughts on your Boy A and Boy B situations, because I've been there, and trust me, you're not alone! First off, Boy A. It sounds like you've got a genuine connection brewing, and those subtle signs like constant eye contact are definitely a good indicator that he's interested. With introverted guys, the 'signs a boy likes you' can be a bit more nuanced. They might not be the loudest flirters, but their actions often speak volumes. Look for things like: Prolonged eye contact: You mentioned this! It's a classic. Finding excuses to be near you: Even if they don't say much, they might linger, find reasons to be in the same space, or 'accidentally' bump into you. Remembering small details: If he recalls something you mentioned casually weeks ago, he's paying attention. Subtle smiles or blushes: When you interact, notice if he seems a little more animated or shy. Asking about your interests: He might not directly ask you out, but he'll try to find common ground. Body language cues: Leaning in when you talk, mirroring your movements, or pointing his feet towards you can be subconscious signs of interest. You said, 'I don't know how to talk to the guy I like,' and that's totally normal! Especially if he's introverted, he might be waiting for a clear signal from you. Since you don't have classes together, consider finding common ground outside of school. Does he attend any clubs, events, or places you could 'casually' frequent? Or, you could always try a low-pressure way to connect: Social media: A friendly message about something you have in common (a school event, a shared interest). A simple 'hello' and compliment: "Hey, I really liked your presentation in that assembly last week!" or "That band's shirt you're wearing is awesome!" Ask for a small favor: Something simple that gives you a reason to chat, like "Could you recommend a good study spot?" or "Do you know if [teacher] is going to collect the homework today?" Organize a group hangout: If you have mutual friends, suggest a group outing. This takes the pressure off a one-on-one and lets you interact naturally. Now, onto Boy B – the classic 'I just want to be friends' dilemma. It's tough when someone you care about as a friend develops feelings, and you don't want to hurt them. The key here is clarity and kindness. Be clear, but gentle: Don't beat around the bush, but deliver the message softly. "Hey [Boy B's Name], I really value our friendship, and I hope we can keep it that way." Avoid leading him on: If he flirts, don't engage in a way that could be misinterpreted. Change the subject, or respond with a friendly, non-romantic tone. Set boundaries: If he continues to push, you might need to say something like, "I appreciate you, but I'm not looking for anything romantic right now, and I really want to respect our friendship." Give him space if needed: Sometimes, for someone to move on, they might need a little distance for a while. Be prepared for that possibility. Remember, your feelings matter too. It's okay to pursue your own happiness while being considerate of others. Trust your gut, and good luck navigating this tricky situation! You've got this! ✨