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# Please spend the rest of your life for yourself

How to... | | Heal Mind | | With 3 Chapters | | Shut down Goodbye To Myself In The Old Days | | Upgrade Version I'm At Comfort With | | Restart Journey For Myself | | Remember Use Keep / Hide / Delete | | Love Yourself Not Equal To Selfish | | And Must Not Trouble Nobody | | 192 Pages

Author# Low eyebrows

IG & X @ kiwtum

Publisher# opendurian # Open to study

🛒📚 the book link on the bio page.

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... Read moreการใช้ชีวิตเพื่อตัวเองอย่างแท้จริงนั้นไม่ใช่เรื่องง่าย หลายครั้งที่เราต้องเผชิญกับความคาดหวังจากคนรอบข้างและสังคม ทำให้เราละเลยการดูแลใจตัวเอง หนังสือเล่มนี้ได้สอนให้เราเรียนรู้วิธีฮีลใจผ่าน 3 บทหลัก ๆ ได้แก่ Shut down ลาก่อนตัวฉันในวันเก่า, Upgrade เวอร์ชันที่ฉันสบายใจ, และ Restart การเดินทางเพื่อตัวเอง ซึ่งสะท้อนวิธีการจัดการกับความรู้สึกติดขัดภายในใจ สิ่งที่ผมชอบมากคือแนวคิด Keep/Hide/Delete ที่ช่วยแยกแยะความคิดและความรู้สึก เพื่อให้เราตัดสินใจได้ว่าควรเก็บอะไรไว้ ขบคิดอะไรบ้าง หรือจะตัดทิ้งสิ่งลบออกจากชีวิตอย่างไร การรักษาใจนี้ไม่เพียงแต่ทำให้เราพบความสงบในตัวเองแต่ยังช่วยให้เราเปิดใจรับความสุขได้มากขึ้น การรักตัวเองในความหมายที่หนังสือสอนนั้นไม่ใช่การเห็นแก่ตัว แต่มันคือการเคารพตัวเอง รวมถึงการรู้จักตั้งขอบเขตที่ชัดเจน เพื่อไม่ให้ใครเดือดร้อนจากการเปลี่ยนแปลงในตัวเรา แนะนำให้คนที่กำลังรู้สึกเหนื่อยล้าหรือสับสนกับตัวเองลองเปิดใจอ่านเล่มนี้และพักกับตัวเอง ใช้เวลาสำรวจความคิดความรู้สึกและจัดลำดับความสำคัญใหม่ มันเป็นกระบวนการที่ช่วยให้เราเติบโตอย่างแท้จริงในชีวิตประจำวัน สุดท้าย อยากบอกว่า การเดินทางเพื่อตัวเองนั้นไม่มีวันสายเกินไป เพราะทุกวันที่เราตื่นขึ้นมาคือตัวเลือกใหม่ในการสร้างชีวิตที่มีความหมายและสุขสงบจากภายใน

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