🚩 They only call when it benefits them

Let’s be real, sis—friendship is supposed to be a two-way street. But you ever notice that one friend who only hits your line when they’re in crisis, need advice, or want a favor? Suddenly you’re their therapist, Uber, and life coach rolled into one—but when you need support? Crickets.

That’s not friendship. That’s convenience. And convenience will drain you if you let it.

Here’s the thing: you deserve relationships that pour back into you. You deserve people who check in just because. Who celebrate your wins, not just call you when their life is falling apart.

Start paying attention to the energy exchange. If you’re constantly left feeling empty after the interaction, it’s time to reevaluate. Boundaries aren’t cruel—they’re self-care.

✨ Goddess Tip: Next time that friend calls, ask yourself: “Do I have the energy to give right now?” It’s okay if the answer is no. Protect your peace.

Your time and heart are valuable. Don’t keep giving discount access to people who only show up when it benefits them.