T H I S I S 2 9🎉🎊

So grateful to see this new year. One last year before I exit my 20s & I am so excited 😆

29 things I know for sure

1. God’s timing is always best — even when it doesn’t match mine or even make sense.

2. I am the woman I prayed to become one day — I am HER.

3. Joy can be found in the smallest moments— even the mundane moments, just be keen

4. I don’t need to have all the answers — Grace carries me.

5. I am not behind. I am right where I’m supposed to be.

6. I am allowed to outgrow people, places, and patterns.

7. Growth often looks like letting go.

8. Comparison is truly the thief of joy —  I refuse to entertain it.

9. Gratitude changes everything.

10. My intuition/gut feeling is usually right — trust it.

11. I don’t have to be everything for everyone.

12. Boundaries are a form of self respect and self love.

13. I do not have to be responsible for how others receive/reject my boundaries

14. No is a complete sentence — you do not need to explain it.

 15. I am living the life of my dream —Little me would be so happy

 16. It is okay to reinvent yourself—you have permission to change your mind.

17. It is okay to choose your self —with love and unapologetic confidence.

18. My worth and identity are not tied to my career—My identity is in God.

19. God can do more with my surrender than with my striving — Let go and let God.

20. The greatest assignment/calling is to serve my family —it is my first ministry.

21. Motherhood is both stretching and sacred — also the wildest ride of my life

22. Grief changes you forever.

23. Healing isn’t linear — it is definitely a journey

24. I can definitely handle way more than I ever thought was possible —His Grace is always sufficient.

25. No one can love me more than I can love my self

26. I only want friends whose eyes light up when they see me — but for real, quality vs quantity.

27. Everything is working out for my good — even when I cannot see or feel it.

28. I can no longer move in fear — I am not in the business of betraying my self.

29. God For sure Answers my prayers — absolutely no doubt about that.

.. Tulsa#readornot #gettoknowmebetter

2025/6/10 Edited to

... Read moreAs you approach a significant birthday like 30, reflecting on your life lessons can be incredibly empowering. Among the many insights gained through experiences are the understanding that joy can be found even in mundane moments, and the acknowledgment that growth often requires letting go of past attachments. It becomes evident that the comparison game can detract from personal joy, and that practicing gratitude each day can transform your perspective. Learning to set boundaries is vital for self-respect and love, and recognizing that your worth isn't tied to external validation is liberating. The courage to reinvent oneself and to trust your intuition are essential in navigating life's challenges. Experiences such as motherhood or grieving can shape you, underscoring that healing is indeed a journey and not a destination. Embracing change and understanding that you can handle more than you think is a testament to inner strength cultivated through faith. Each lesson serves to remind you of the richness of your unique journey as you step forward into a new decade.

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