Book Review: This Is How We Talk
Book Review: This Is How We Talk: A Celebration of Disability and Connection
Written by Jessica Slice and Caroline Cupp
Illustrated by Kayla Harren
This Is How We Talk is a beautifully written and tenderly illustrated celebration of the many different ways people communicate—especially within the disabled community. Jessica Slice and Caroline Cupp, along with Kayla Harren’s warm and expressive artwork, have created a book that is both eye-opening and affirming for children and adults alike.
What makes this book truly stand out is its representation. From speech devices and sign language to body language, gestures, and more—so many different ways of talking are shown with dignity, joy, and authenticity. As a parent of a child who uses sign language when he can’t get the words out, I was deeply moved to see that reflected. The book makes it clear: sign language isn’t only for Deaf individuals—it’s a powerful tool for many, including children with speech delays, disabilities, or moments of overwhelm.
Even more impactful is the back of the book, which includes thoughtful, clear explanations of every communication method shown. This turns a beautiful story into a meaningful learning opportunity—making it accessible for classrooms, families, and anyone wanting to better understand and connect with the world around them.
This Is How We Talk is more than a picture book—it’s a bridge to empathy, connection, and inclusion. Every bookshelf needs this.
As someone who has spent time volunteering with communities that support children with disabilities, I found 'This Is How We Talk' to be an enriching addition that truly broadens how we understand communication. The book beautifully illustrates that communication isn't limited to spoken words but encompasses sign language, assistive devices, gestures, and more—each method equally valid and meaningful. In many educational environments, introducing resources like this book can encourage empathy and inclusion among young learners. It helps children grasp that everyone expresses themselves differently and that patience and openness are key to connection. The detailed explanations in the back of the book provide invaluable guidance for parents and educators alike, making it an excellent tool for classroom discussions or family reading time. Moreover, the illustrations by Kayla Harren add warmth and personality, making the characters relatable and the communication methods clear. This artistic approach helps demystify disabilities and encourages children to celebrate differences rather than fear them. I particularly appreciate how the book underscores that sign language is not solely for the Deaf community. It’s instrumental for children with speech delays, sensory overload moments, or other communication challenges. This inclusive perspective invites readers to rethink assumptions about communication and disability. In my experience, embracing such books in family libraries or school curricula contributes to fostering a more accepting and understanding society. 'This Is How We Talk' is a gentle yet powerful reminder that every voice matters—no matter how it’s heard or seen.