De-influence [or influence] my wishlist

2025/5/13 Edited to

... Read moreHey Lemon8 fam! Building a beauty wishlist, especially with all the amazing sales constantly popping up, can be super overwhelming, right? I've been there, staring at an endless scroll of 'must-have' products and wondering what's actually worth my hard-earned cash. This time, I’m trying to be really strategic, and I’d love to share my process and hear your thoughts on my potential picks! First off, how do I even start building a smart beauty wishlist for an upcoming sale? My go-to strategy involves a few key steps. I begin by taking stock of what I actually need. Do I have a serum running low? Is my favorite moisturizer almost empty? This helps differentiate between impulse buys and genuine necessities. Then, it's all about research! I spend time reading reviews, watching demos, and checking ingredient lists. I look for products that align with my skin type and concerns, not just what everyone else is raving about. Sometimes, I even try to get samples if possible to patch test before committing to a full-size product, especially for skincare items. Setting a budget is also crucial; it prevents me from getting swept away by the excitement of a sale. I prioritize my essentials first, then consider a 'fun' new item if it truly excites me and fits the budget. Now, for the fun part: de-influencing (or influencing!) my current thoughts! Looking at my current (and very aesthetic!) collection of potential buys – you know, those gorgeous pink and pastel-colored containers that just call to you – I'm trying to be super critical. For skincare, I'm eyeing a new vitamin C serum and a hydrating mask. Are they genuinely innovative, or is my current routine already doing the job? With makeup, a new blush palette is tempting, but do I really need more shades, or am I just drawn to the pretty packaging? I’m also considering a specific hair care oil that's been all over my feed. Is it truly transformative, or can I get similar results with a more affordable alternative? Same goes for body care – I’m trying to decide if a viral body lotion is a game-changer or just another nice-smelling cream. It’s so easy to get caught up in the hype around popular items, but I’m really pushing myself to think: is this product going to genuinely enhance my routine, or will it just sit on my shelf looking pretty? This whole process helps me curate a wishlist that’s practical, effective, and truly useful, rather than just a collection of trendy items. What are your thoughts? Have you tried any 'viral' skincare, makeup, hair care, or body care items that you loved or wish you'd skipped?

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I’m gonna have to say this but I have the Rom&nd lip there and the fwee pot. Omg there both super nice, the pot dose make your lips look more dry if you don’t moisturize them before applying but besides that it’s one of my daily makeup I use and I’ve had mine for almost a year now and haven’t really made a dent. It’s also a cheek blush so multiple ways you can use it. And honestly the Rom&nd lips are really nice I really like the there lip products and glosses.❤️

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1. Flower knows is under hated because it’s mainly focused on the packaging than the actual product and personally I think it’s a waste of money and people in china has been saying that they’ve been copying another company’s formula (I forgot which and they just changed the packaging. in short just don’t get it. 2. Anua cleaning oil in my opinion isn’t good and didn’t work for me (I have dry acne prone skin) and I remember seeing some ingredients that shouldn’t be on your face but I forgot so I might look back on it to give a fact check so don’t take me for granted on this one and this one is more of how it worked on me and my skin but maybe it’s ok for yours 3. The strawberry lotion it bad and just smells like yogurt and in short it can cause triggers to eczema and it’s pretty drying on the skin plus the scent doesn’t last and another thing is that it makes bumps on the skin. That’s all but I’m probably gonna come back and fact check myself if i feel like it

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