What to Wear to A Black Tie Wedding! 🖤💐💍

Wedding season is in full swing! And so is wedding guest fashion! I love everything about weddings and sometimes it can be tricky finding an appropriate wedding guest outfit and I find that this is especially true for black tie weddings. I always say when in doubt it’s easiest to go with black for more formal events.

These two dresses are PERFECT for any black tie wedding or any formal, black tie occasion really.

The first dress is for the glamazons! It is such a stunning sequin dress with a sheer mermaid panel below. My favorite part about this dress has to be the gorgeous floral appliques! They are in a gorgeous periwinkle color that is so flattering on my skintone, and they are just so, so dreamy, literally the perfect detail for a wedding. The dress is really comfortable and lightweight because of the mesh and just such a fun dress!

The second dress is such a unique dress and it’s honestly one of the most flattering dresses I’ve ever worn! The shape is just stunning, it’s truly a moment! The keyhole detail is also really adorable and shows a sliver of skin which makes the dress super sexy even though it is pretty covered.

Which one of these dresses are you feeling?! What are your go-to colors for formal events?

#lemon8partner #weddingseason2024 #weddingguestdress #weddingguestoutfitideas #blacktiewedding #blacktiedresses #blacktieoptionalwedding #formaldress #formalfashion #formaloutfit

2024/6/2 Edited to

... Read moreNavigating the 'black tie dress code' can feel like deciphering a secret language, especially when you want to look your best without feeling out of place. From my own experiences, I've learned that a black-tie event for women almost always calls for a formal, floor-length gown. It’s about elegance, sophistication, and showing respect for the occasion. While my go-to choices often lean towards the timeless sophistication of black, as seen in the glamorous sequin gown with those stunning floral appliques and the unique keyhole dress, your options extend beyond just one color. Don't limit yourself to black if it's not your style! Rich jewel tones like emerald green, sapphire blue, ruby red, or deep amethyst are incredibly popular and appropriate for black-tie affairs. Even sophisticated metallics — silvers, golds, and bronzes — can create a black tie inspo moment, especially if they have that subtle shimmer, much like a sequined number. The key is to choose colors that are deep, luxurious, and refined rather than bright, neon, or overly casual prints. Fabric choice is equally important. Think luxurious textures that drape beautifully: silk, satin, chiffon, velvet, and even high-quality lace. These materials instantly elevate your look. Avoid casual fabrics like cotton, linen, or jersey, which are better suited for less formal events. The lightweight mesh in one of my recommended dresses shows how modern fabrics can offer comfort while maintaining elegance. When considering silhouettes, classic styles like A-line, sheath, or mermaid gowns are always a safe bet. They offer a refined elegance that complements formal settings. Embellishments, when done tastefully, can truly make a dress stand out. Delicate beading, intricate embroidery, or elegant appliques – like the periwinkle florals on the sequin dress – add a touch of glamour without being overwhelming. The keyhole detail on my other favorite dress is a perfect example of how a subtle design element can add intrigue and sophistication. To complete your ensemble, pay close attention to your accessories. Elegant closed-toe heels or sophisticated open-toed sandals are a must. Leave the chunky platforms or casual wedges at home. A small, elegant clutch is ideal for carrying your essentials, rather than a large shoulder bag. For jewelry, opt for pieces that are refined and complement your dress. This could be a delicate pendant necklace, a pair of statement earrings, or an elegant bracelet. The goal is polish, not distraction. For those wondering about black tie couple outfits, while the focus is usually on the woman's gown, you can certainly coordinate your look subtly with your partner. If he's wearing a classic black tuxedo, you might choose a dress that shares a similar level of formality and perhaps a complementary color or metallic accent. It’s about creating a harmonious visual without being too matchy-matchy. Ultimately, what a woman wears to a black tie wedding should make her feel confident and beautiful. A dress that fits well and allows you to move comfortably, like the lightweight options I adore, will ensure you enjoy the celebration without any wardrobe worries. Feeling good in what you wear is truly the best accessory!

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Andrea Pryor

where do you get the dress on the right??

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LUVMEHAIR

I love the first one🥰

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