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I'm complaining. Please let me know your opinion.

Sorry for the weird title.

My husband and I are talking about handling my daughter's hair.

My daughters have thin hair and it's easy to get tangled.

In addition, due to the circumstances of the husband side, the rinse used for children is limited and the treatment is not possible. My husband is also irritated by the entanglement of my daughters' hair while taking a bath with my daughters and it is easy to get entangled enough to say "I should cut it short."

My hair grew to the middle of my back and became more and more tangled.

I do my daughters' hair set from the morning, but when I brush my hair, I sometimes get caught and say "It was." (By the way, the brush is a tangle teaser.)

My husband has heard the scene many times and is told, "I have never been told that it hurts," "My hair is missing," etc.

Is it something that is not said to hurt during hair setting? Certainly, my husband is more polite and I am more rough.

However, do moms who set their hair every day on busy mornings have time to brush their hair so carefully?

Even though ordinary moms are neither hairdressers nor professionals, can they set their hair without pain every day?

My husband asked the daughters, "Does it hurt to be brushed by Mom?" and answered, "Sometimes it hurts."

Of course, there are days when you don't say it hurts. Rather, there are definitely many people who don't say it. (You don't know if you endure pain)

My husband tells me, and I've been especially careful lately to eliminate the pain of my daughters.

My husband doesn't seem to feel comfortable brushing and losing hair. He just says that it's because I'm doing it wrong. If you brush it, you will lose your hair normally, right?

By the way, recently I cut my hair about 10 cm and the degree of tangling has decreased considerably.

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... Read more子どもの髪の絡まりに悩むママは多いと思います。特に髪質が細く絡まりやすい場合、毎日のブラッシングはお互いにストレスになりがちです。私も同じような状況を経験しましたが、痛みを減らすためにいくつか工夫をしています。 まず、髪を濡らした状態やコンディショナーをつけた状態でブラッシングすると引っ掛かりが軽減され、痛みが少なくなります。記事内でリンスやトリートメントが限られているとのことですが、可能であれば子どもの髪に合う軽いトリートメントやデタングラー(絡まりを取るスプレー)を使うのもおすすめです。無添加や低刺激のものも多いので敏感な髪でも使いやすいです。 また、ブラシの種類も重要です。タングルティーザーは絡まりを解きやすいとして有名ですが、髪の状態や子どもの反応を見て、柔らかい毛先のブラシや手や指で優しくほぐす方法を組み合わせるのも効果的です。忙しい朝でも、髪を小分けにして少しずつ丁寧にブラッシングすることで痛みを抑えられます。 ご主人との意見の違いについては、それぞれの立場や経験の違いからくるすれ違いかもしれません。夫婦でヘアセットのやり方を話し合い、お互いにやりやすい方法や役割分担を見つけるのも良い解決策だと思います。 ちなみに、髪の毛が抜けることは多少は自然な現象で、ブラッシングで抜ける毛も含まれます。ただし抜け毛が極端に多い場合は別の原因も考えられるため、注意が必要です。 最後に、髪を10cm切ったことで絡まりが減ったのは良い判断ですね。髪の長さや量を調整するのも絡まりを防ぐ重要なポイントです。毎日のヘアセットは大変ですが、工夫を重ねて痛みを減らし、子どももママも笑顔になれる時間にしていけるといいですね。

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