Asha Chapter 2
Asha is the third of four.
Her oldest brother is 54 now. Lately, he’s been a little short of breath. Nothing major… just enough to get checked.
He went.
They talked about it back when their father got sick. Almost ten years ago now.
“Everybody should get checked.”
Asha always meant to.
Just… not yet.
Because nothing is really wrong with her. At least nothing she can’t explain.
And honestly… wasn’t that more of a men thing anyway?
She shouldn’t have stopped at the sporting goods store.
Now she’s running late. Again.
“Ma, come on, we gotta go.”
She pulls up in front of the building—Westbrook Medical Center.
Grabs her bag, helps her mom out of the car.
They start walking. Fast.
That’s when her mother notices.
“Asha… why you walking like that?”
Asha doesn’t even look down.
“I’m fine, Ma. Just tired. I sit too much. I need to move around more, that’s all.”
Her mother pauses. Watching her.
“You know what your daddy’s doctors said.”
Asha keeps walking.
“And your brother went and got checked.”
They’re almost at the door now.
Asha exhales, just a little.
“Ma… I said I’m fine.”
Her mother doesn’t argue.
Just gives her that look.
The kind that doesn’t push… but doesn’t let it go either.
#hATTRNextGen #FamilyHealth #KnowYourHistory #ListenToYourBody
They walk inside.
Living with a family history of illness often compels us to reflect on our own health, as Asha's story illustrates. Having grown up hearing the mantra ‘Everybody should get checked’ after her father's illness, Asha is caught between denial and acceptance. Many can relate to her hesitance—feeling fine and attributing symptoms like tiredness or slight discomfort to everyday life rather than potential medical issues. From my own experience, I’ve learned that early medical screenings can be life-changing, especially when a serious health concern runs in the family. Sometimes the mind creates justifications to ignore warning signs, similar to the phrase recognized in Asha's story: 'The mind sometimes explains away what should be checked.' It's a familiar tendency to downplay symptoms, thinking they’ll resolve on their own or aren’t severe enough to warrant medical attention. What resonated with me most in Asha's narrative was her mother's quiet insistence and watchful eye—a reminder of how family support plays a crucial role in health decisions. Her mother’s gentle persistence echoes a vital truth: we need to pay heed not only to our own intuition but also to those who care about us. Visiting a medical center for a check-up can feel daunting, especially if you're trying to avoid the stress of a possible diagnosis. But as Asha’s brother’s recent check-up shows, taking that step provides peace of mind and a proactive path to well-being. No matter the gender or age, health maintenance is essential, and dismissing symptoms as 'more of a men thing' or mere tiredness can delay important care. On a practical level, sharing this story reinforces the importance of making time for health appointments despite busy schedules or minor inconveniences—like Asha stopping at the sporting goods store and then rushing. When faced with these moments, prioritizing health can make all the difference. In summary, Asha’s journey to Westbrook Medical Center is more than a personal anecdote; it’s an invitation to listen to our bodies, honor family health history, and courageously pursue timely medical care. If you’re hesitant like Asha once was, take that first step—your future self will thank you.
