Stop being a factor of another's love life.

"To be an example in someone else's love life is to allow others to steal happiness from your hands." If you are asking why this love is so tired, the short answer is: Because you are so dedicated to creating lessons for others that you forget to write a happy chapter for yourself, good love must not try to follow anyone until they are hugging, but to walk together at the same pace of the heart.

Why do we accidentally play "factor"?

In an age when we see other people's lives perfect through the screen, many people accidentally take their own values to tie them to other people's "interests." We are willing to be a supporter, a supporter, a person who waits to chat overnight, or to change ourselves to please him. Because deep down, we are afraid of abandonment. Being a factor is safe, because we think that if we are good enough, one day he will choose us. But that is the trap that makes us lose our identity a little by a bit, so that we can't remember when the last time our hearts beat because of our happiness was.

Drilling into Psychology: Why Do We Repeat Hurt?

Famous psychologist Dr. Leon F. Seltzer once explained about "Self-Sacrificing in Relationships," that some people have a behavior called Pleaser, or submitting people in exchange for love, which is often caused by deep heart wounds that we are not worthy of the good. There is also a research on Attachment Styles that says that people with anxious attachments tend to devalue themselves so that relationships remain, even if they bite their hearts.

Solution: Reset the heart system. Rewrite the script for yourself.

1️⃣ Endurance Deadline (Set Boundaries): Unbounded kindness is self-harm, stop allowing anyone to leave your life at will.

2️⃣ Self-Investment: Take the time you used to sit and chat, develop skills, exercise, or do what you like, because the real "charm" is caused by people who love their lives.

3️⃣ Accept the painful truth: If he wants to have you in life, he will make room for you without trying to insert yourself.

Summary: Lessons from Senior Jane X to Younger Jane Z

Life is not a series that has to wait for a hero to ride a white horse to help, but an action movie where you have to hold a sword to fight for your own happiness. The day you decide to stop being an "actor" in someone else's role is the day you are crowned a "heroine" in the real world. True love begins when you love yourself enough to walk out of where he doesn't see it.

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