fr tho, why?
In recent times, many have noticed a shift in the way friendships, especially among girls, are maintained. There seems to be less openness and willingness to share personal thoughts or secrets as was common before. From my experience and conversations with friends, several factors contribute to this change. Firstly, social media plays a huge role. Instead of confiding in friends directly, some prefer to express their feelings or situations online or through indirect messages. This change can sometimes create distance and misunderstandings within close friend circles. Secondly, trust can be a big issue. When someone shares something personal and it somehow gets back to others or is misunderstood, it can discourage further openness. The fear of judgment or gossip is a real barrier. It's also important to consider the emotional load people carry. Sometimes girls choose to handle challenges privately to avoid burdening their friends or because they fear being perceived as too emotional. Understanding these dynamics can help improve friendships. Encouraging honest and non-judgmental communication helps build trust so that sharing can feel safer again. Everyone needs a reliable friend to turn to, and fostering that trust takes effort and care from both sides.

