What I’m wearing as a 35 yo mom 🫶🏽

Okay, fellow moms! Let's get real about church attire. As a 35-year-old mom of 4, I totally understand the struggle of wanting to look put-together for Sunday service but also needing an outfit that can withstand chasing toddlers, comforting little ones, and still feeling comfortable enough to actually focus on the service. It’s not just about what you’re wearing, but how it makes you feel when you're managing a busy morning. When I think about "casual church outfits," my mind immediately goes to pieces that are modest, practical, yet still reflect a sense of effortless style. And if you're like me, maybe you've also been drawn to that "old money style girl" aesthetic – that classic, timeless elegance that looks expensive without being flashy. How do we combine that with the reality of mom life and Sunday mornings? Here's my personal approach to nailing that chic, casual church look: 1. Embrace Classic Silhouettes: This is where the 'old money' vibe really shines. Think A-line skirts, tailored trousers, midi dresses, and classic button-down shirts. These pieces are inherently elegant and versatile. For example, a well-fitting midi dress in a neutral color (think navy, olive, cream, or a soft plaid) is my absolute go-to. It’s one piece, easy to throw on, and instantly looks polished. Pair it with a simple cardigan or a classic blazer, and you’re set. 2. Prioritize Comfort & Practicality: We're moms, not runway models! Comfort is key. Look for fabrics with a little stretch or natural fibers like cotton and linen that breathe. For shoes, forget those stilettos unless you have a very calm crew! Stylish flats, loafers, block-heeled ankle boots, or even clean, minimalist sneakers can complete a look beautifully while keeping your feet happy. And let's not forget layers! Churches can be notoriously unpredictable with their heating and AC, so a chic cardigan or a light jacket is always a smart move. 3. The 'Old Money' Touch: It's All in the Details (and Neutrals!): You don't need a designer label to achieve this look. Focus on quality over quantity. Stick to a palette of sophisticated neutrals – black, white, cream, navy, grey, camel. These colors always look elegant and mix-and-match effortlessly. For accessories, think minimalist: a delicate necklace, classic stud earrings, a structured handbag (ideally one that can hold snacks for the kids!). A good quality belt can also instantly elevate a simple outfit. It’s about being understated and refined. 4. My Mom-of-4 Go-To Examples: The Effortless Dress: A flowy, long-sleeved midi dress (maybe a subtle floral or a solid jewel tone) paired with comfortable ankle boots or classic ballet flats. Add a simple gold necklace. Smart Trousers & Blouse: Tailored black or navy ankle trousers with a silk-blend blouse (or a crisp cotton one). If it's cooler, a fine-knit cashmere or merino wool sweater works wonders. Finish with loafers. This look always feels incredibly put-together. Midi Skirt & Sweater: A pleated midi skirt in a rich color or subtle pattern with a fitted knit top or a tucked-in sweater. This is comfortable, chic, and allows for movement. Remember, the goal is to feel confident and comfortable so you can fully participate in the service and enjoy time with your family. What I'm actually wearing to church usually centers around these principles. It's about finding that sweet spot where practicality meets timeless elegance. So next Sunday, grab those classic pieces, embrace those neutrals, and rock your casual, chic, old-money-inspired mom style!