One’s man’s trash is another man’s treasure
Heavy on “I’ll hold your hand energy mixed with I’ll ruin your life energy” 🤣 i’m not bipolar, but my mood will shift real quick- depending on how I’m treated. PRO TIP: get you a MAN & not a lil boy. Boys can’t handle all that sass and personality. They’ll call you CRAZY & HORMONAL. Sis, you ain’t the problem, that entitled mamas boy is. If he is consistently bringing out your crazy side and then getting defensive by the way you respond— THAT IS REACTIVE ABUSE. The MAN that’s meant to be in your life will watch you blow your top and kiss you on the forehead to calm you down. He won’t push every button you got and then complain about the way you react. When he slipped up and hurt your feelings or says something a little too harsh, he won’t turn it around on you. He will apologize. I said all that to say.. Be authentically you! I don’t care if you just got out of an abusive relationship & you feel damage be on repair- don’t hide your insecurities don’t mask your feelings. HEAL OUT LOUD & When the right MAN comes along he will adore all your crazy & carry you through the hard times. He will help you out of the pit- instead of pulling you further down in the hole. You are a princess- a queen with a touch of crazy and THAT IS OKAY! 👏🏼
Navigating relationships after experiencing emotional challenges can be a complex journey, but embracing your authentic self is a powerful step toward healing and happiness. It’s crucial to recognize not just what you deserve in a partner, but also how to identify unhealthy dynamics such as reactive abuse, where your emotional responses are invalidated or turned against you. True emotional support in a relationship involves a partner who acknowledges your feelings without judgment, offers apologies when they slip up, and helps you grow rather than dragging you down. It’s common to encounter individuals who might label you as ‘crazy’ or ‘hormonal’ unfairly, but these labels often reflect their own inability to understand or respect your emotions. Instead, seek a partner who brings calmness and understanding, someone who appreciates your complexity and sees your vulnerabilities as strengths. Healing out loud, as suggested, means openly expressing your feelings and insecurities instead of hiding them. This fosters genuine connection and helps build trust. It also empowers you to set clear boundaries, which is essential for maintaining your mental health and resilience. Being a queen with a touch of ‘crazy’ is not just acceptable—it’s a unique part of your identity that deserves celebration and respect. Remember, mental health and emotional well-being are at the core of healthy relationships. Supportive partners can contribute positively to your healing, encouraging you to stand strong and thrive. By choosing love that uplifts and respects your true self, you reclaim your power and create a nurturing environment where both you and your partner can flourish.
