Date yourself ꒰ღ˘‿˘ற꒱
🌟 do you ever feel weird going out alone or avoid attending events because you have nobody to go w you?
That was me a few years ago, one time I got tickets to a comedy show n my friend couldn’t go so instead of just going myself I stayed home ..
I regret it sm cause I love experiencing new things and adding to my list of concerts/shows I’ve attended n seen!
Two years ago after I moved to AZ for a bit, on a whim .. this concert came up and I knew nobody there but really wanted to go!
Idk what happened to me. Maybe it was the balls I grew from leaving the little towns I was adjusted to living in, behind n was freshly single but I said f it.
Ima go ALONE 🙂↕️😛
& did !!
I had such a fun time too! I bought myself a few drinks (I wasn’t driving) jumped around n sang my ass off (is it okay to swear on here?)
I got a cute guys number 😛🙂↔️
it was just a fun time and I’d do it all over again! I’m so glad I didn’t wuss out n just stay home!
moral of the story is enjoy your own presence! Live your life w out limiting yourself too much because you don’t have the presence of another person!
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I went to my first concert alone last year, I was so nervous but when I got there I realized no one was paying me any attention. I ended up going to 7-8 concerts last year afterwards and most of them were solo dates. I had more fun by myself then going with other people lol