I cried when I found out the gender ๐ญ๐
Gender disappointment is real and no, it doesnโt make you ungrateful or a bad mom.
You can be thankful for a healthy baby and still feel sad about the version of motherhood you pictured. Both can exist.
Feeling it doesnโt mean you love your baby any less. It means youโre human.
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I would be more empathetic if women stopped throwing tantrums at gender reveals and stopped saying "girl or abortion." Its a horrible thought process either way