It’s Only ‘Too Much’ When It’s Not Meant for You.
When a man says you’re asking for too much, he’s really saying he’s not capable.
What you’re asking for isn’t too much—it’s just too much for him.
Another man is already giving what he called unreasonable… with ease.
Stay soft. Stay high standard. 💅🏽✨
In the realm of relationships, knowing your worth is essential. Often, when someone claims you're asking for too much, it reflects their limitations rather than your requirements. Self-awareness in what you desire is key—it's not just about finding someone who meets your expectations but also understanding that every individual is capable of different things. When we talk about high standards, it’s vital to acknowledge that these standards vary from person to person. What feels unreasonable to one may be effortless for another. Therefore, staying true to what you want and deserve is crucial. It’s okay to seek emotional support, respect, and love that align with your values, and it's necessary to remember that these aren't excessive demands. Maintaining high standards involves a balance of self-love and realistic expectations. It’s about evaluating if your needs resonate with the person's ability to provide them rather than compromising your standards for someone who cannot meet them. Such compromises can lead to frustration and resentment over time. Furthermore, being soft implies remaining gentle with yourself; give yourself grace to understand that it’s okay to have standards. You are deserving of the type of love and respect that meets your needs. Surround yourself with those who appreciate and uplift you, allowing your standards to shine rather than diminishing them under pressure. Ultimately, the right person will not find your needs unreasonable; instead, they will embrace them as a part of who you are. Remember, your demand for happiness and respect is not too much; it simply highlights what you are worthy of and should expect in healthy relationships.
