I love kids don’t get me wrong but..

It isn’t that I don’t think I’d make a great mom I’m just not sure that no matter what I do I just don’t think I’ll ever be ready or see myself with a child.

My mom is still shocked I don’t have any yet and I feel the pressure thank god I’m not the only child. I am rich auntie material I don’t think I’m mother material.

2024/1/7 Edited to

... Read moreThe decision of whether to have children can be deeply personal and often complex. Many women face societal expectations regarding motherhood and the stigma that accompanies the choice to remain child-free. This can lead to feelings of inadequacy or concern about societal norms. Conversations around this topic are becoming more open, allowing individuals to share experiences and challenges. It’s important to recognize that everyone’s journey is unique, and it's okay to embrace different lifestyles. Whether it's being an aunt or pursuing one's passions, fulfillment can come in many forms. Understanding and embracing your feelings towards parenting is vital, and seeking community support can help share the burden of societal expectations. Open discussions and sharing stories can support others in similar situations, creating a space where choices are respected and understood. Through these conversations, individuals can find peace in their decisions, whether that includes motherhood or not.

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Bella G

I’m pushing 44 and no kids but not by choice! 😭 However for me it’s cool not having kids I can do what I please and buy whatever I want but at the same time it gets boring not having lil me’s running around! 🥺

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Faithful

In order to.go up we must grow up

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