🪑🤍 PORCH HEALTH UPDATE: Road to Recovery

Hey my beautiful porch family… come sit with me for a minute… 🪑💭

First off… from the bottom of my heart… thank you 🙏🏾💐

For the calls ☎️

The texts 💬

The prayers 🕯️

The gifts 🎁

The love y’all been pouring into me…

Baby… it has not gone unnoticed. Not one bit. 🥺🤍

I’m still in this neck brace 😢

Still healing… still moving slow… still learning patience in a way I didn’t ask for…

And truth be told…

Since I can’t work right now, and that’s how I live…

The support, donations, and love offerings? 💵💞

They’ve been helping me more than you know.

And I appreciate it deeply… truly. 🙏🏾

Now let me say this real clear, with love and a little porch firmness 👀🪑

This ain’t a begging post.

So if your spirit leaning toward judgment or gossip…

this ain’t your porch today. 🚪✨

This right here is just me… being real.

Because today…

your aunty ain’t all the way strong. 😔

I’ve been in this house… in this bed…

and it’s been getting to me… 🛏️💭

And with my birthday coming up Monday… 🎂😢

I ain’t gon’ lie… that thing hit different this year.

No celebration.

No outside.

Just me… healing… and trying to keep my spirit together.

And today…

I’m just not that cheerful. 😩💔

But I do know this…

Healing takes time. 🕊️

And I trust God… even on the days I don’t feel strong.

So if you got it in your heart… 💫

Send your aunty some love 💌

Some positive energy 🌿

Some prayers 🕯️

Some good vibes 💞

I could really use it today…

Because even the strong ones…

need a moment to just be held too. 🤍🫂

Thank you for loving me through this…

I love y’all right back… heavy. 💕🪑

4/9 Edited to

... Read moreRecovering after an injury or surgery is often much more challenging than people expect, especially when it affects daily routines and mental well-being. From personal experience, wearing a neck brace and having limited mobility can leave one feeling isolated and frustrated. It’s normal to go through emotional ups and downs during recovery — days when you feel hopeful and strong and days when the weight of healing feels overwhelming. Support from loved ones makes a significant difference. Receiving calls, texts, and thoughtful gestures can brighten a challenging day. It’s equally important to practice patience with your body and mind; healing is rarely linear. I found that allowing myself the grace to slow down and rest helped prevent setbacks. Mental health is a crucial part of physical recovery. Taking moments to acknowledge feelings of sadness or loneliness without judgment can help ease the emotional strain. Additionally, small acts like sending out positive vibes, prayers, or simply checking in with someone going through recovery provide immense comfort. Faith and trust in a higher power or positive energy also serve as vital coping tools. Even on the hardest days, holding onto hope and believing in eventual strength can foster resilience. Birthdays or milestones during recovery may feel different or less celebratory, but they can still be meaningful moments of reflection and gratitude. If you are on a similar journey, remember: it’s okay to ask for help, to lean on others, and to take time for yourself. Even the strongest among us need moments to be held and supported. Recovery is a process of healing the body as well as the spirit, and both deserve gentle care.

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BeautyAllthat

Sending positive energy and vibes, also a healthy and better than before ( prior to injury) blessed healing ❤️‍🩹.. love from one Sista to another 💪🏾

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Caramel_Gator

I’m sending you healing vibes & positive energy 🙌🏾🙌🏾💛💛

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