he’s been sleeping with other girls

okay i am going to be so vulnerable here but i have been seeing a guy for a little while now and i really liked him and was happy and we had started talking about long term plans. last night i found out that he has been talking to and sleeping with other women that he has met on tinder. he lied to my face and told me it was only one girl and it only happened once but i found out that there were multiple women and he has been sleeping around practically the entire time we have been seeing eachother. he told me he loved me and i believed him but now i just feel so stupid. he blamed me and told me that it wasn’t his fault because “we weren’t technically dating” and that is such bs, this has never been casual and i have been with him exclusively since the day we started talking. he cried and has been begging me for a second chance but i really don’t know what to do and i am so conflicted. my heart hurts so much because i still really love him but i can’t trust him after this and i really don’t think he will ever change.

#just got cheated on😔 #cheatedon #scared to love someone new #cheaters

2024/10/26 Edited to

... Read moreDealing with infidelity can be one of the most painful experiences in a relationship. Trust is foundational, and when it is broken, it leaves emotional scars that are difficult to heal. Many people find themselves questioning their worth and the authenticity of their partner’s feelings. If you are in a situation similar to this, remember that you are not alone. It’s important to take the time to assess your feelings and determine whether you can rebuild trust or if it's healthier to move on. Consider speaking to supportive friends or a therapist to help process your emotions. Engaging in self-care can also be beneficial. Focus on activities that bring you joy and fulfillment. As you navigate through this difficult time, be kind to yourself, and allow yourself to grieve the relationship you thought you had. Healing takes time, and it’s okay to prioritize your emotional wellbeing. Remember, you deserve a relationship built on honesty and respect.

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Don’t give him a second chance that’s like giving a shooter another bullet because they missed the first shot let that sink in

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