3 stages of love in our lives

1) First Love (The First Love): Innocent Love

This love usually occurs during school age, as a kind of love in a novel or a teenage love movie.

Characteristics: It is love that emphasizes feelings of excitement, appearance, and decency in the eyes of those around you (such as friends saying good, or looking like a cute couple).

Feelings: We are always dedicated and believe that this is "eternal love" without yet knowing the truth of life.

Lesson: Teach us the word "love" in its initial form, but most have to end because we are too young to handle the truth.

2) Second Love (The Hard Love): A Love Full of Lessons

This love is often the "most sore" and most tired time.

Characteristics: It is a love that comes with high expectations, usually with a cycle of quit-well-off or very dramatic.

Feelings: We often try to change ourselves or change him to make love survive, because we want it to be a better love than the first, but it often becomes a repetitive pain.

Lesson: Teach us "own needs" and make us grow up quickly from mistakes and losses.

3) Third Love (The Last Love): Unforeseen Love

This love always comes the day we stop running for love and start taking care of ourselves.

Characteristics: Come simple, not whiz, not exactly the specification that was previously set, but also the most "comfortable."

Feelings: It's love that we don't have to try to be other people, don't carry expectations, but are really ready to learn, listen, and grow forward together.

Lesson: Teach us that "good love" is love that supports each other, and makes us a better version of ourselves.