when he looks like this song 💗

i used to be ✨the✨ poster child for what a victim mentality looks like. in my mind, i had no control over my life - i thought i was at the whim of universal factors beyond my control, and at the mercy of my emotions. i didn’t think i could change things (my habits, my thoughts, my feelings, any

Some are working. Some are smiling. Some are showing up every day. But inside... They are tired. Mentally drained. Carrying things they can't explain. And the worst part... Nobody notices. They just deal with it silently. If you ever felt like this say " I feel you" in the com

when you hear the word “adhd” what do you see? probably a little boy with tons of energy, unfocused, acting up in class. in reality, adhd usually looks a LOT different. and one of the reasons i went so long without knowing i had it was because of the images i’d been shown of what adhd looks like

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I had this friend who used to think love meant chaos. Like if someone called you 20 times in a row, that meant they really cared. Or if they made you feel guilty for needing space, it meant they were just “passionate.” She thought love had to be loud, dramatic, and a little painful to be real.

i never had positive relationships modeled to me, so understanding the actual scope of what my role should look like in ✨healthy✨ relationship was a MAJOR learning curve. i think as women we tend to gravitate towards giving too much or caretaking in situations where our person actually needs t

if i had to pick one single self care practice that’s done the most good in my life, it would be journaling. i’ve been doing it every single day since i was 13, and without it i wouldn’t be the person i am today! top 5 benefits of journaling: ✔️ sort through your thoughts and feelings daily

this is your reminder that the REAL glow up is INTERNAL! when you change your inner state of being, you literally glow from the inside out ✨💫 as women, we’re told every single day (whether by others, through subliminal messaging, or direct marketing) that we need “xyz” to look and feel our best.

When I say I want layers, this what I mean. 🤌🏾🥰👆🏽 #Hair #blackgirllemon8 #haircut #fashionfinds #beautyfinds

i had zero emotionally secure relationships when i was growing up. so in pretty much every adult relationship i went into i was insecure, reactive, anxious, and uncomfortable. i had no idea how to be close to someone else. it takes time and practice to really get a grasp of what emotional safety

As a Business Woman I LOVEEE when all things just go RIGHT all in one day. As an entrepreneur I will always have ups and downs, I’ll have slow days, or unexpected occurrences on a good day— BUT TODAY?! I got my money IN, my brand deals IN, & seeing my work in UGC PAY TF OFFFF🥹✨ For the re

Is god real ? Who is god ? What is god ? Where is god ? If god was real then why did he put me through that ? If god love me then he would send this my way ? Where is god when I need him ? If you’re reading this, this is your sign from god to tell you “I am real and I am here. You question me b

Letting go isn’t graceful. It’s gritty, raw, and deeply human. It’s not always about peace—sometimes it’s about survival. The truth is: Letting go can look like silence, sleepless nights, and shaky steps forward. But in the mess… there’s magic. Because healing doesn’t always look like free

you know how your days use to be so much longer? it took foreeeeever to get from the morning to the evening when you were a kid - and now the day flies by without you even realizing it ⤵️ there’s a lot of reasons for that: time is experienced shorter because you’ve been alive longer. and you spe

hey yall here is what my 80/20 diet has been looking like recently! The 80/20 rule is when you eat healthy 80% of the time and eat whatever you want the other 20%!! It can vary from person to person so here is mine for reference. Even on my 20% I still find myself trying to eat more whole foods

When I say I want layers, this what I mean. 🤌🏾👆🏽🥰 Pt.2 #Hair #blackgirllemon8 #haircut #fashionfinds #beautyfinds

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Golden slumbers kiss your eyes, Smiles awake you when you rise; Sleep, pretty wantons, do not cry, And I will sing a lullaby, Rock them, rock them, lullaby 🍂 -Thomas Dekker #makeuptutorial #makeupideas #makeup #makeupideas #beauty #gold #makeupinspo #goldmakeup #Lemon8 #l

As an ADHDer, I have to regularly change up my systems to keep them maximally efficient. But even though I am well aware of this, when it comes time to actually do the change, I often freeze. Or worse, I try to implement the system with a very low success rate. But honestly? I already think the

🤎 I also like Visual Kei/J-Rock, I am the whole package 🤣 But the GazettE, Mejibray and Unite are the first couple groups I started listening to in Middle School. I can’t really look at the Gazette pictures for too long without getting sad after finding out about Reita’s death. Lemme info dump abou

I’ve lived through days like this. Days where everything looked normal on the outside, but inside I was just trying to survive one moment at a time. When you’re stuck in it, even the smallest things getting out of bed, replying to a text, finishing a meal feel like too much. It’s a heavy kind of