White people or black people Mac n Cheese!?!?

WARNING: Please be advised this is not in any way to be offensive I to this day thinks it’s hilarious. It is very much so normal for different people to like different variations. It is very much normal!

So I am a black female adopted by 2 very wealthy white parents lol (I love them VERY much) and recently at events I have been cooking and bringing things to eat. I made Mac n Cheese the only way I thought was the correct way🤷🏾‍♀️milk butter cheese and then in the oven to get extra greasy and cheesy on top. WELL on our family vacay( 12 people) I made my Mac n cheese and only me and someone else ate it😐. They said they are used to Macaroni salad, and Mac n cheese with breadcrumbs and croutons……

THERES NO WAY I AM EATING A SALAD INSTEAD OF MAC N CHEESE!!!

Which version of Mac do you prefer?? 😊

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2024/7/5 Edited to

... Read moreIt’s fascinating how one dish can spark such a lively debate, isn't it? My recent family vacation definitely made me realize that 'mac and cheese' isn't a one-size-fits-all concept. While my go-to recipe is all about that golden-brown baked macaroni and cheese with a rich, greasy, and super cheesy top, I quickly learned that not everyone's idea of perfection is the same! This experience really got me thinking about the diverse world of mac and cheese and what makes each version so special. When people talk about 'Black people's mac and cheese,' they're often referring to a truly iconic dish rooted deeply in soul food traditions, especially throughout the American South. This isn't your average stovetop quick fix; it's typically a baked masterpiece. Think multiple layers of cheese – often sharp cheddar, Colby, Monterey Jack, and sometimes even a touch of Velveeta for ultimate creaminess – all melted into a rich, velvety custard. This custard base, often made with eggs, milk (or evaporated milk), and butter, is key to its signature texture. The goal is usually a decadent, hearty dish that’s baked until bubbling and topped with that irresistible golden-brown crust. It's a labor of love, reserved for holidays, Sunday dinners, and special gatherings, meant to feed a crowd and invoke comfort. The deep flavor profile and often slightly thicker, richer consistency set it apart. Then there are other beloved variations that might surprise you. My family, for example, mentioned 'macaroni salad.' Now, to me, hot mac and cheese and cold macaroni salad are two entirely different culinary universes! Macaroni salad, typically a cold dish tossed in a creamy, mayonnaise-based dressing often with crunchy vegetables like celery and peppers, is a staple at picnics and potlucks. It’s light, tangy, and refreshing – a stark contrast to the warm, gooey, and heavy baked dish I adore. This highlights a key distinction when discussing 'difference between mac and cheese and white sauce pasta' or simply different styles: some are hot, some are cold; some are cheesy, some are mayo-based. Another popular choice, which my family also brought up, is a baked mac and cheese topped with breadcrumbs or croutons. This adds a lovely crunch and texture, creating a different kind of mouthfeel compared to my preferred extra-greasy, cheesy top. While still baked, the focus shifts slightly from pure gooeyness to a textural interplay. Many 'white people's mac and cheese' recipes might lean towards a simpler, often stovetop method, sometimes using a classic béchamel or white sauce as a base before adding cheese for a smoother, more uniform sauce. These can be quicker to prepare and offer a different kind of creamy comfort. What I've learned is that there's no single 'right' way to make mac and cheese. It's all about family traditions, regional influences, and personal taste. If you're aiming for that deeply satisfying, cheesy, golden-brown baked mac and cheese experience, my advice is to embrace a mix of cheeses for depth, don't shy away from butter and cream, and give it ample time in the oven to develop that perfect crust. And most importantly, remember that every version, whether it's a baked soul food classic or a tangy macaroni salad, brings joy to someone's table. It’s a delicious world out there, and I’m always open to trying new cheesy adventures!

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Okay, as an older white Southern woman, NEVER put breadcrumbs on Mac & Cheese. It should be shredded cheese for the crisp. Cook macaroni set aside.Grate cheddar & (I prefer a smoky gouda) Create a béchamel. Start with a rue (equal parts flour & butter), when creamy add milk& cheese, add pasta, seasonings & bake

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A few years ago I made the Mac and it was horrible. I was banned from making it for years. They let me make it this year! The pressure was on! I’m white but, black people know how to do it right. I followed a “black” recipe and it was bomb! I’m going to be making the Mac from now on!

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