I’m shopping for dinner then I’ll do part 3 💙

2025/7/11 Edited to

... Read morePicking up right where Part 1 left off, my 'HORROR STORYTIME' in Thailand truly escalated during our time in Bangkok. I was so excited for this leg of the trip, especially staying at The Fig Lobby Hotel and exploring the vibrant Jodds fair night market. Bangkok, with its energy and endless possibilities, held so much promise. But honestly, it all became overshadowed by the ongoing 'supporter' saga that was quickly turning my dream vacation into a personal nightmare. It's hard to explain without sounding petty, but imagine traveling with someone who constantly mirrors everything you say and do, not just occasionally, but almost reflexively. The OCR captured snippets of it – like when I'd casually say 'period' to emphasize a point and she'd immediately echo it, or suggest a color for an outfit and then claim she had thought of it first, even if she had just said the opposite. It started subtly as an odd quirk, but by the time we were checking into our unique hotel at noon and planning our evening at the Jodds fair night market at 8 PM, it was driving me absolutely insane. It wasn't just copying; it felt like a constant, low-level competition for originality, and honestly, it sucked the joy out of so many moments I had looked forward to. I remember one particularly frustrating phone convo, or rather, a FaceTime call with my trusted friend Tay, where I just had to vent. I couldn't even keep texts of it because it was all live, raw emotion. I was trying to articulate how this 'supporter' seemed to always give off an air that she 'knows' what she's doing all the time, but in reality, she was just echoing me. My friend, bless her, joked, 'Listen to it next time. I'll be like period and she says period immediately after or I'll be like idk think blue and she's like oh blue said that yeah and I'm like girl you said white.' That conversation perfectly summed up the maddening dynamic. It made me feel so incredibly alone, even though I was physically with someone in an exciting new city. The constant feeling of being copied, of my thoughts and expressions not truly being my own, was incredibly isolating. I even noticed this unsettling pattern already at breakfast that morning, a seemingly simple meal, feeling that familiar sense of deep annoyance creep in. This constant friction prevented us from truly enjoying the magic of Bangkok. I had visions of exploring the bustling Floating market, experiencing the unique chaos of the Train market, and getting lost in the vibrant energy of the China town night market. These were all on my itinerary! Instead, my mental energy was completely drained by this interpersonal drama. It left me with a profound mix of 'ughhhh' and 'yayyyy' feelings – 'yayyyy' for being in amazing Thailand, a country I adore, but a huge 'ughhhh' for the companion I was with. It felt like I was constantly on edge, unable to fully relax and immerse myself in the cultural experiences I craved. Looking back, it’s a tough lesson learned about choosing travel companions. Even in breathtakingly beautiful places like Bangkok, the wrong company can truly turn an adventure into a 'HORROR STORYTIME'. It wasn't about the stunning temples or the delicious street food; it was about the uncomfortable personal dynamic that overshadowed everything. I'm literally just finishing up shopping for dinner now, and then I'll be diving into writing Part 3, where I'll share how I tried to navigate the rest of this challenging trip during Songkran 2025, and perhaps, finally get some much-needed space. Stay tuned for the next chapter of this unforgettable journey that definitely didn't go as planned!

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