What’s popping ?

Hey fellow moms! I've been feeling this deep struggle lately, and I just had to reach out to my #momsoflemon8 community for some advice and support. You know that feeling when your kids are 'WATCHING WITH ZERO ENGAGEMENT'? It's like they're glued to the screen, but their eyes are glazed over, and nothing's really sinking in. I see them just staring, completely zoned out, and it makes me wonder what's really happening in their little brains. I first started noticing this a few months ago. My little one would ask for the tablet, and I'd think 'okay, a few minutes won't hurt, I can finally get X done.' But then I'd look over, and instead of giggling at a cartoon or trying to follow along with an educational game, they'd just be blankly absorbing it. No questions, no reactions, just... watching. It's truly disheartening because I want screen time to be at least a little bit enriching, not just a passive time-filler. Is it the content they're watching? Are some shows just designed to be mindless? Or is it a sign of too much screen time overall? I've tried to introduce more interactive apps and shows, but sometimes it feels like they just revert to the easy, passive stuff. I worry about what this 'zero engagement' means for their development, their creativity, and even their ability to focus on other things. I'm desperate for some practical tips from other parents. How do you encourage active viewing? What are your strategies for making screen time more meaningful, or even just setting boundaries that actually stick? Have you found certain types of content that genuinely spark engagement? I've heard about co-viewing, where you watch with them and ask questions, but honestly, it's hard to do that all the time. I'm also trying to introduce more non-screen activities, like building blocks, drawing, or outdoor play, but sometimes the pull of the screen is just so strong. It feels like a constant battle, and honestly, I could use some encouragement. Knowing that other moms out there are going through similar struggles makes me feel less alone. Let's be #momsupportingmoms and share our best hacks and emotional support. Any advice on how to turn that 'zero engagement' into something more positive and interactive would be a lifesaver. What works for your family in 2025? I'm open to all suggestions!