Read this if you’re going to be POSTPARTUM!

The First Forty Days is literally the postpartum bible and my number one recommended book to read while pregnant to prep for postpartum!

The first half of the book describes the traditional teachings of the first forty days time period in postpartum. The author describes how in different cultures than the American culture, mothers, aunts and women in the birthing family’s circle will also take a leave of absence and come live in with the postpartum family and take over all of the housework, childcare and responsibilities of the family so that the birthing mother can rest and bond with her baby.

The book also helps to walk you through a pregnancy check-list for preparing for postpartum! Realistic steps to help set you up for success to be able to sit in deep rest and bond with your baby.

The next section is all about recipes that are going to nourish your body and make recovery easier!

#lemon8partner #pregnancybooks #pregnancyhabits #firstfortydays #postpartum #innatepostpartum

2024/5/26 Edited to

... Read moreThe postpartum period is a critical time for new mothers, focusing on recovery and bonding with their newborn. 'The First Forty Days' encapsulates this experience, emphasizing the importance of rest and support for mothers. This guide offers an insightful look into various cultural practices surrounding postpartum care. For example, many cultures engage family members to assist mothers during this period, alleviating the stress of household responsibilities. The book also addresses practical steps for preparing ahead of your baby's arrival, such as creating a postpartum checklist and planning meals in advance. Additionally, it provides nourishing recipes aimed at promoting healing, including lactation-boosting broths and herbal teas. These recipes are designed to help mothers regain strength while ensuring their nutritional needs are met. The approach encourages a nurturing environment that enables mothers to focus on bonding with their babies. By prioritizing wellbeing during these early weeks, new mothers can create the emotional and physical foundation essential for motherhood. Overall, 'The First Forty Days' serves as a valuable resource for navigating this transformative phase, helping mothers to embrace and cherish their postpartum journey.

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