Happy Birthday to Me! Big Ice 🩵❄️🥶

Icy drops below 30!

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Got older so it got much colder!

Been the baddest since birth!!

30 years around the ice is crazy! I will say I’m blessed by God 1st always! I’ve been though so much; I put myself and my family 1st and the best blessings have came into my life! Beyond thankful for those who stuck by me! If you know me is to know my life is always busy but I always stay true to the people I love the most and cherish!

Cancer: the one and only motherly sign that balances the characteristics of understanding, intuitive, nurturing and being protective! We are truly one of a kind! Our way around life, family friends and love ones is unmatched!

My 20s was a time! I’ve learned so much about myself as a parson! I learned my path will always be different from the next person, I can’t align with others when my journey is different! I learned to give myself grace, be true to my values, understand how to navigate even when I didn’t have the motivation to do what was planned or what I wanted to do. As a mother, a friend, a love one and a woman, I’ve learned to make mistakes, learn to correct them as we continue to go on! Life is still new to me as much as it is to everyone else! Once I stopped caring how people felt and what it looks like for someone else, life just got better! 20s made me understand the value of ambition I’ve always had, the resilience I’ve overcome! Trust me I’ve been down pretty bad and always bounce back to greatness! My kids: My Nya and My Bryan are my rock! They are truly a blessing! I couldn’t ask for a better duo through this experience! If I didn’t have them, it wouldn’t be a ME! They taught me so much about being a mother who couldn’t imagine at 18 and 20 having the ability to take care of both! I proved to myself I did this with no handouts and staying strong, staying true to me! That’s the biggest flex! I love them to infinity and beyond! When you see those kids just know that’s all me! 💙💕

2025/7/14 Edited to

... Read moreTurning 30 is a milestone that often brings deep reflection on one’s journey of growth, resilience, and personal values. Amidst the symbolism of "icy drops below 30," this age marks both the end of youthful exploration and the beginning of mature self-awareness. It is common for individuals to look back on their 20s as a transformative decade where lessons about self-acceptance, ambition, and perseverance became pivotal. For many, including mothers balancing family and personal aspirations, this period involves learning grace and patience with oneself. The challenges faced—whether emotional, financial, or relational—often forge a stronger foundation of character and determination. As expressed in the original heartfelt message, embracing one’s unique path rather than conforming to others' expectations fosters authenticity and inner peace. The zodiac sign Cancer, known for its nurturing, intuitive, and protective qualities, often symbolizes deep emotional connections and loyalty to family and friends. Those born under Cancer tend to value strong interpersonal bonds and have a unique capacity for empathy and care, which resonates deeply with the reflections shared about motherhood and personal growth. Incorporating self-love and the courage to make mistakes enables continuous learning and resilience. Many find that the support system of loved ones, including children and close friends, provides the essential strength to overcome life's difficulties. This unwavering support reinforces the importance of cherishing relationships and acknowledging blessings. In sum, turning 30 can be celebrated as an achievement of survival, love, and triumph over adversity. It is a time to honor the past, appreciate present blessings, and look forward with renewed ambition and hope for the future. For anyone nearing this age, embracing these lessons can inspire a positive outlook and empower a fulfilling next chapter of life.