After sharing this post of my family,
I received messages saying our love is wrong, our children should not exist, and that harm toward us is inevitable. That is racism. It does not need softer language. It does not need to be explained away. It needs to be named.
Black History Month is not a moment for surface level reflection. It is a reminder that the work is ongoing. At home. In schools . In community. In the stories we tell our children and the silence we choose or refuse.
Our family is proud. We celebrate Black excellence. We honour our heritage, and feel so grateful for the generations who fought so our children could exist.
Sharing real experiences with racism reveals how deeply ingrained prejudices still affect families today. Receiving messages that question the legitimacy of one’s love or existence is a heavy burden that many mixed-race families endure silently. This direct confrontation with hate highlights the crucial need to name and address racism openly without euphemisms. During Black History Month, beyond honoring historic achievements, it is vital to engage in active education and conversation about systemic racism and its impact on communities. At home, parents teach children about their heritage and resilience, helping them build pride in their identity. In schools and communities, curricula and programs need to reflect diverse histories and experiences with honesty and depth. In my own family, acknowledging the ongoing fight against racism has strengthened our bonds. We celebrate Black excellence not only through history but also in everyday accomplishments and cultural expressions. Honoring the legacy of those who fought for justice encourages us to continue pushing for equity and respect in all areas of life. Stories like this also remind us how silence can be harmful, whether by ignoring racism or avoiding difficult conversations with children. Choosing to speak up and share lived experiences fosters understanding and solidarity. It empowers families to reject hate and stand proud of their heritage and love. Ultimately, this narrative is a call for collective responsibility—to confront racism visibly and persistently, support each other's dignity, and cherish the rich tapestry of Black culture and history that enriches our society.