Engagement Ring Specs+ Diamond Selection Thoughts💭
I have never posted this before but I believe this was a trend here on lemon8 🍋 last year? Am I misremembering? Let me know... anyways I am finally sharing mine. At first I didn't want to share it because I felt bad, since I know not everyone can reasonably get an investment grade diamond nor does everyone want to. However I am posting this today so that people can learn the thought process behind why we spent so much on a rock 🪨 (literally lol).
My fiance is a very savvy investor. He buys stocks, gold, silver, gemstones, and high end cars like Porches. He has sold all of the above for a higher price than when he bought it. With anything he buys, he likes to look at what retains it's value.
When it comes to the diamond industry because it is becoming so saturated, especially with an influx of lab grown gems; most engagement rings do not retain their value. The only diamonds that truly retain value are the ones with perfect specifications because they are so rare and hard to find. It took my fiance a year of searching to find the stone for my ring. Companies like Cartier shown here in this post did not even have a stone near the same perfect quality in their stores.
We are now looking to the future and buying other gemstones such as emeralds and like I mentioned precious metals that we keep stored in physical safes. As someone who has had the bank "misplace" all of the money in my savings account previously I love having physical commodities in my possession and am blessed to have found someone with the same mindset. ❤️
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Hey everyone! So glad my initial post about our investment-grade engagement ring specs resonated with so many of you. I've gotten quite a few questions about how we actually went about selecting a diamond that holds its value, and what makes some rings a better 'investment' than others. It's a topic my fiancé and I spent a lot of time researching, and it's definitely more complex than just picking something shiny! When we talk about 'investment-grade' diamonds, we're really honing in on rarity. My ring's specs – that stunning 3.25 carat oval shape, D color, FL clarity, and Excellent cut – aren't just pretty numbers. They represent the absolute top tier, which is incredibly rare to find. A 'D' color means it's colorless, the highest grade. 'FL' (Flawless) clarity means absolutely no inclusions or blemishes visible even under 10x magnification. And an 'Excellent' cut? That's what gives it maximum sparkle and fire. Most diamonds, even beautiful ones, have slight inclusions or a warmer tint, which makes these top-tier stones stand out in terms of rarity and thus, value retention. It's not about having any diamond, but one with these unparalleled characteristics that truly has a chance to appreciate, or at least hold its own. On the flip side, what makes an engagement ring a 'bad investment' or less likely to retain its value? Honestly, it often comes down to saturation and demand. Lab-grown diamonds, while beautiful and ethical, are generally not considered investment pieces because their supply can be easily scaled up, impacting their long-term scarcity and value. For natural diamonds, anything below a certain threshold in the 4 Cs – say, a very visible inclusion, a strong yellow tint, or a poor cut that makes it look dull – will drastically reduce its resale potential. Many mass-produced rings, even from reputable jewelers, don't focus on these top-tier specs, making them more of a sentimental purchase than an investment. Our research showed that even a well-known brand's 'Cartier's top option' for similar size didn't meet the stringent quality we were looking for to ensure value retention, despite being reported to be 'triple the price' of a comparable, but lesser quality, stone. My fiancé's mindset isn't just about diamonds; it's about tangible assets. We're now exploring other precious gemstones like vivid emeralds, rubies, and sapphires that also have excellent investment potential when sourced with top quality. And of course, physical gold and silver, which he's been adept at trading for years. It's about having a diversified portfolio, even in your jewelry box! For those curious about a 'ring value app,' while there isn't one perfect app for investment-grade valuation, getting an independent appraisal from a certified gemologist (GIA or AGS accredited) is crucial. They can provide an objective assessment of your stone's quality and market value, giving you a clearer picture of its worth. So, if you're out there looking for an engagement ring and want to consider its long-term value, my biggest advice is to educate yourself on the 4 Cs *thoroughly*. Don't just settle for what's available; be patient, search for those rare, top-tier specs. Look for strong GIA or AGS certifications. Think about the legacy of the stone. It's a significant purchase, and with a little savvy, it can be both a symbol of love and a smart asset.




It is beautiful 🥰 The stone is perfect. Congratulations, you’re going to be a beautiful bride ❤️