This App Can Be A Little Messy 😩
I still love everything about this app lol let me start there🩷💁🏾♀️
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I wanted to spread some love and positive energy this morning before I go into story time lol. These gratitude cards are from Barnes&Noble, FULL OF POSITIVE appreciation, affirmations and quotes. I just leave them laying around and i try to read 1 every day then put it back in the deck. The first one I picked up yesterday to take pictures of said “ Avoid Negative Media & Negative People For A Day “ wish I would have seen this yesterday morning lol
…………………………………………………………………………………..Ok, Something i had to realize is that, No matter how much we want this app to be SUPER POSITIVE, there will always be certain people here for all the wrong reasons, there will always be someone who doesn’t agree with what you post, someone who will disagre with something you say, someone who is offended. Some who takes your words the wrong way, someone trying to be a mean girl, And it’s ok, we are all mostly adults here, so we should know IF YOU HAVE NOTHING NICE TO SAY, DONT SAY IT AT ALL 👌🏾
…………………………………………………………………………………SO yeah, within the last couple of days I have been posting way more, getting more views and I feel like that’s coming with a little negative Nancy’s😩 and I don’t want to attract nooo type of negative energy!! Like NONE . I know I have no control over that but 🙄 PLEASE, POSITIVE VIBES ONLY . This app is peaceful af, let’s keep it like that ✨🤞🏾
……………………………………………………………………………………I know everyone is not going to agree with everything I post, or like everything I say. & THATS FINE, if I see something I’m not a fan of, or something I don’t agree with, I simply keep scrolling. I’ll never come on someone else’s page or post and be negative towards them and disrespect their character because I don’t agree with something they said or posted lol like no. 😂🤦🏾♀️ but, I’ve been getting that. Not with everybody of course but like 2 people. And it’s cool lol I have tough skin, ain’t no biggie 💪🏾💪🏾😘
…………………………………………………………………………………But the thing is, I caught myself going back and forth on two different post WHICH WERE MINE LOL and it was Really all about something so petty . One was a debate, which is ok, we can agree to disagree and still follow eachother lol, and the other was a simple misunderstanding about a comment. Nothing right ? lol 😂 now I’m going to respond because one, it’s my post, and two I’m engaging 🥰💁🏾♀️but It did get a little aggravating I gotta admit that 😂🙄 BECAUSE IM NOT HERE FOR THAT and I honestly don’t like when someone try to come for my character and who I am as a woman especially when they’re a complete stranger.
……………………………………………………………………………………I don’t really like blocking people lol because I feel like when people don’t like you, they watch you the most and idk, ITS JUST SOMETHING ABOUT LETTING SOMEONE WHO DONT LIKE U, SEE YOU GROWING AND NOT GIVING UP THAT I LOVEEEE ✨💪🏾💪🏾💁🏾♀️😘 because one thing about me lol I will tune a negative person out so bad 🥰💪🏾💪🏾🤞🏾😘 but I will block some one of it gets too annoying lol
………………………………………………………………………………Have you ever felt like you were attracting the wrong audience. Well, I can’t say that’s the case because not everybody is a bad apple. But I have came across 2 or 3 lol
How do you deal with the rude comments? Do you block people or let them stay ?
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In today's fast-paced digital world, creating a positive online community can be challenging. Users often encounter negativity, whether through rude comments or differing opinions. This article emphasizes the importance of establishing boundaries and prioritizing positive interactions. One effective method is utilizing gratitude cards to foster appreciation and mindfulness. These cards encourage individuals to reflect on the good in their lives and avoid engaging with negativity. By setting intentions and focusing on uplifting content, users can curate a more enjoyable experience on social media and apps like Lemon8. Moreover, the advent of social media has made it easy to share moments of joy and growth. However, it is equally critical to understand how to handle criticism gracefully. Instead of responding impulsively to negativity, consider practicing self-care, which includes blocking out negativity and surrounding yourself with support. Engaging with like-minded users who share similar values further enhances the experience. In conclusion, maintaining a positive presence on apps can lead to more genuine connections, allowing individuals to thrive while navigating the noise of negativity.
