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The coldness.

Used to sit next to one person

That looks quiet and passive until we think for ourselves

That he doesn't feel anything.

But the second the wind blows,

Through the light sun

He looked away.

Like trying to remember something

That day, I just understood that

... sometimes. People who look cold.

Might ever feel too much.

Until not wanting to feel anything else

It's not because he's not hurt.

But because he's tired.

With carrying it alone.

Become silent.

That doesn't want anyone

Hearing my own broken voice

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