Late 2O’s Are confusing .
Idk lately I’ve been feeling like a new person !! A new woman at that, I just turned 29 & it feels surreal. Honestly looking back at my 20s of course I’ve made a lot of mistakes like any other young person in their 20s but I’m realizing I put a lot of energy into the wrong things . I’ve always been a loner , but I’ve always like to have people who wanna be around me , be around me , if that makes sense . Not realizing that people can drain you . Friend or family , or whoever , so it’s important to have that alone time so you stay grounded with who you are . Also to have genuine love & support around you . I definitely don’t look like what I’ve been through , from being in shelters at 15/16 & , not having the best guidance , being in mental hospitals , dealing with anxiety , depression , becoming a young mother at 19 while trying to navigate the world . It was all new to me. But I’m realizing i don’t always have to have it all figured out & it’s ok to just go with the flow & gods timing . I’ve had a lot of ups in my 20s as well , being able to save up 10k in my savings with my own discipline 🤝🏽 , renting my first apartment in my own name , graduating school ina great field that I love at 24 , always being able to provide for myself & kids with GODs help . I’m thankful. But I’m also grateful & blessed in the process . I just want to grow closer to god , continue to be an amazing woman , mother & person . & see what all god had plannned for me 🙏🏽. So this journey isn’t over it’s just beginning !#lemon8challenge #mentalhealthmatters #girlgrowth #lemon8creator
The late 20s can often be a confusing and transformative period, marked by both challenges and significant personal growth. Many people in this stage experience a reassessment of priorities, relationships, and goals as they approach their 30s. This period is not just about achieving milestones but also about understanding oneself more deeply and fostering emotional resilience. One important aspect highlighted is the recognition that being around others constantly isn't always beneficial. As the OCR text points out, "Always put yourself first, nobody else will put you over them, SO prioritize you." Setting healthy boundaries and valuing alone time can help maintain mental and emotional well-being. This practice prevents emotional exhaustion, which can come from draining relationships—whether with friends, family, or partners. Additionally, staying organized and managing time with tools such as planners, as noted in the image text "Having a planner & staying organized even though I been doing this since a teen is super important," plays a critical role in navigating this life phase. It supports achieving goals such as financial independence, career growth, and self-care. Nature walks and consistent skincare routines, mentioned in the OCR, emphasize the value of self-care and reconnecting with the natural world to soothe anxiety and depression. This holistic approach encourages balancing physical health with mental peace. The journey through the late 20s includes overcoming significant challenges, like mental health struggles and unexpected life events, such as young motherhood or lack of guidance during adolescence. Acknowledging these hardships while celebrating achievements—saving money, renting an apartment independently, graduating in a desired field—reinforces a narrative of resilience and empowerment. Faith and spirituality often provide comfort and direction during this time, reminding us that "it's ok to just go with the flow & God's timing." This acceptance helps alleviate pressure to have everything figured out immediately, promoting a more compassionate and patient outlook on life. In summary, the late 20s are a period of recalibration where focusing on genuine love, self-prioritization, disciplined habits, and spiritual growth fosters a strong foundation for the future. Viewing challenges as opportunities for growth, and embracing the journey with gratitude and hope, can help anyone navigate this transformative decade with confidence and grace.
