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Are you together? ðŸĪĢ😁

Feeling bored of husband or bored of wife

As they age,

It happens to many partners, especially those who have been together for more than 10-20 years, not that...I love you â™Ĩïļ

But caused by many factors that accumulate during life. Heavy pouring towards bored husband

55 ðŸĪĢðŸĪĢ

1. Excessive familiarity

Together for a long time, everything is the same, the same words, the same habits, the same routines, the brain will no longer have excitement, so it means "boredom."

2. Women change their outlook on life

In middle age, many people begin to ask themselves,

💎 What kind of life do we want to live?

💎 What do we want to be happy with?

And they looked more at themselves while some men were still living the same life.

3. Cumulative fatigue in marriage

Over the years, most women have to be mothers, wives, housekeepers. If they are not understood or valued, love will gradually turn into "fatigue."

4. Big children. Life is quiet.

When you have kids, the house is chaotic, but when you grow up or disperse,

The couple had to be together again, and so many of us just knew that the two of us barely really talked.

5. Love changes form

Young love is "fire," but the love of long-time people often becomes a "bond," may not be overactive, but it does not mean no value.

Important things to ask yourself first

There are many kinds of bored feelings.

👉 bored because.. life remembers

👉 bored because.. not being bothered.

👉 Or bored because our hearts really start to change

Knowing why makes us make the right decision to "adjust our marriage" or "adjust ourselves."

📌 the angle of thought you want to leave.

A long-lived couple doesn't really live because they're never bored, but they choose to learn from time to time, the person we've been with for 20 to 30 years, maybe getting to know him or her again at a changing age.

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