Replying to @shespeaks228 The problem isn’t acknowledging that some AKA chapters once had a certain “look.” The problem is romanticizing WHY that look existed while insulting the Black women who don’t fit it today.
There were also AKA chapters full of dark-skinned, kinky-haired, fuller-figured Black women. They simply weren’t always the image placed at the forefront.
And yes, colorism and paper-bag politics existed within parts of Black society and organizations. Why would we want to go BACK to that? Mocking women for being darker, bigger, or not fitting an old beauty standard isn’t preserving tradition. It’s recycling exclusion and calling it “standards.”
In my experience observing social organizations and community groups like Alpha Kappa Alpha, it's clear that historical beauty standards have often favored a narrow image that does not reflect the diversity of Black womanhood. While some chapters celebrated lighter skin and Eurocentric features, many darker-skinned and fuller-figured sisters were part of the community but often underrepresented or marginalized. From personal conversations and witnessing evolving cultural conversations, I’ve seen a growing awareness about how colorism—a preference for lighter skin within Black communities—has caused harm and division. It’s not just about aesthetics but about who is valued and celebrated publicly. When old beauty ideals are romanticized, it unintentionally excludes many women who do not fit those standards, fostering feelings of invisibility and hurt. Moving forward, it's important for organizations like AKA to consciously showcase and uplift the full spectrum of Black beauty. This includes celebrating kinky hair textures, darker complexions, and diverse body types. Doing so strengthens the sisterhood and reflects authentic inclusivity rather than maintaining restrictive and outdated standards. Moreover, acknowledging that colorism existed within some chapters can be uncomfortable, but it opens space for healing and growth. Embracing all members without judgment or exclusion based on appearance creates a healthier, more united community. Ultimately, rejecting the recycling of exclusionary 'standards' and instead embracing diversity enriches not only the organization's legacy but also empowers Black women everywhere to feel seen, valued, and proud of their unique beauty.