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When I started wearing makeup, a lot of people couldn’t understand it.
It went against what people thought a guy was “supposed” to look like, and because of that, I was judged constantly. I was told I’d never have a career doing this. I was laughed at, made fun of, and eventually felt like I didn’t even belong at my own high school.
There were so many moments where quitting would’ve been easier.
But I kept going.
Not because I knew I’d be successful one day, but because makeup made me happy. It gave me confidence. It allowed me to express a part of myself that I’d spent so long trying to hide just to make other people comfortable.
Years later, I’ve been able to build a career I once was told was impossible. I’ve worked with brands I used to dream about, met people I never thought I’d meet, and built a community that reminds me every day that being different isn’t something to hide—it’s something to be proud of.
Facing societal judgments like "you're a boy, why are you wearing makeup?" and "boys can't do makeup" was a significant challenge in my early makeup journey. Growing up, the pressure to conform to traditional gender roles is intense, and venturing into a field perceived as feminine often means encountering disbelief and discouragement. However, embracing makeup not only boosted my confidence but also helped me express my authentic self—something I had suppressed to fit in. The negative comments, such as "makeup is for girls" or "you'll never find success as a makeup artist," echoed around me, but I chose to see them as fuel rather than barriers. One key lesson I've learned is that success in any industry, especially one as competitive as beauty, demands persistence and belief in your craft. Early on, I wasn't sure if I would be accepted or successful, but my love for makeup kept me going. Proudly, I've collaborated with brands I once only admired from afar and connected with a supportive community that celebrates diversity. For anyone feeling isolated because their passions don't fit the mold, remember that being different is a strength, not a weakness. The makeup industry, like many others, benefits greatly from diverse voices and talents. By sharing your unique perspective and skills, you enrich the creative landscape and inspire others to do the same. In summary, don't let doubts—either from others or yourself—deter you. Following your dreams requires courage and resilience, but the fulfillment and opportunities that come with authenticity are truly rewarding.
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