I clearly pissed the 60 & over crew off over on Lemon8 with my decision to not have children. So I decided to start my new series for all the rich aunties & uncles.

Let’s normalize everyone doing what’s best for them. I’m an Aries, we stand on our decisions. You can not bully me into motherhood. Aunt Jas loves all the kids but I do not want to be responsible for anyone else but myself. I love my freedom to get up & go whenever I want.

In my 20’s I discovered who I was, what I wanted & didn’t want, all while building a brand/business. (Trust me, it wasn’t easy at all.) In my 30’s, I’m continuing to put God & myself first, finding a balance between my personal life & business but most importantly JUST LIVING!

God gave me one life to live & I’m going to enjoy every second of it MY WAY!💕

2025/10/7 Edited to

... Read moreChoosing to be a ‘rich auntie’ rather than following traditional expectations of motherhood is a powerful lifestyle decision that reflects the importance of self-awareness and personal priorities. Many women today feel societal pressure to conform to motherhood norms, but embracing the freedom to live life on one’s own terms is gaining acceptance. For those who opt to prioritize their personal growth, career ambitions, and spiritual journeys, it’s essential to recognize that this choice is valid and worthy of respect. The term “rich auntie” here symbolizes a woman who thrives independently, enjoys financial freedom, and embraces a life filled with love and support for family members without the responsibilities of parenting. Balancing faith, self-care, and professional ambitions can lead to a fulfilling, meaningful life. People often find that prioritizing their spiritual beliefs provides guidance and strength to remain true to their decisions. It also enables a deeper appreciation for living authentically and joyfully. Importantly, normalizing different life paths helps create a supportive community where individuals are free from judgment. Whether one chooses motherhood or not, each path has unique benefits and challenges. The key is recognizing and honoring personal boundaries and goals without yielding to societal bullying or stigma. By sharing stories about rejecting conventional pressures and celebrating alternative lifestyles, society moves closer to embracing diversity in life choices. This fosters a culture where everyone can pursue happiness and contentment on their own terms, with kindness and acceptance from others.

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Hadiza Nuhu

As a mother it’s nothing wrong with that and I tell my daughter this as well ❤️

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Kanishia Goudy

❤️❤️❤️