Sometimes we have to remind ourselves that we aren
The past few months have been crazy hard for me. It’s been like my life has just spiraled out of control and I found myself in a constant struggle of trying to figure out where I went wrong.
I’m not perfect, I’ve never claimed to be or even acted like I was. I’m pretty transparent with my flaws and short comings. However, no matter what I’ve done or said to the people who were supposed to love me forever, it was just never enough.
I’ve spent the past three days constantly reminding myself of my worth. I know my heart has always been in the right place. I know my intentions are always good and I don’t seek to hurt people the way they hurt me.
I won’t let other peoples actions define me, nor will I allow them to change my heart and how much I care and show up for others. Even when they don’t deserve it, my kindness overshadows my pain.
Im learning how to put me first and treat myself the same way I treat others because if I’ve learned nothing in the past few months, let alone life time, is that no matter what you do or say people will see you exactly how they want to see you and they will do exactly what they want to do. If someone cares they would let you know and they would show you. When they don’t, take it for exactly what it is and move on.
Here’s to putting myself first and enjoying life as I deserve to, because it’s too short to wallow in someone else’s misery. 🥂
In times of hardship, it’s essential to remind ourselves of our worth. This past year has seen many struggling with self-identity and emotional challenges. It’s crucial to understand that others’ actions are a reflection of them, not us. The message that ‘you are worth keeping, loving, and making a priority’ resonates deeply. This sentiment encourages self-acceptance and highlights that everyone deserves respect and kindness, regardless of life’s challenges. Establishing boundaries is a vital step towards self-care. When we acknowledge our intrinsic value, we give ourselves permission to prioritize our needs. Healthy relationships flourish on respect and mutual understanding, and if others fail to meet those standards, it’s important to move on. Fostering self-love is more than a popular mantra; it’s a necessity in a world that can sometimes feel isolating. The reminder that ‘it was them who had the problem’ reinforces that external negativity shouldn’t dictate our self-worth. Embrace kindness, let go of negativity, and learn to shine even when challenges arise. You deserve to live a life filled with joy and fulfillment!