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One day we'll know...

Work on silence. One day we'll know...

There was one day.. more than 20 years ago

As children, we saw many adults

Gossip on the villagers in the flea market with a voice talking about other people and knowing that person well.

But actually, "judging" that person, even though he doesn't know him well enough.

This is normal.

To know better than to know your life.

It's very strange.. talking about other people. Want to be delicious.. 😅

J is the one who.. does not go to the ordained, the wedding, the social party, the children show off, bring children to show off.. 1st class, my children are good at that.

At first I thought that we were very introverted.

But really, not at all.. Normally

Because before, there was gossip, and people around them liked to talk about the villagers.

Jay just doesn't like.. doesn't like to listen.

And choose to live in a quiet world..

Have you ever experienced yourself at..

We succeed in life much faster than fast 8 through hell.

Living abroad every year since the age of 21

Almost 30 countries have arrived.

Je did not finish 4 years like everyone else.. (using Xiu, finished 6 and a half years), but the new school period has been completed in life.

...

The villagers said,

That's it. Your dad's still tired. Take your money away to send money home.

There's the car that drives your father's money, despite all your money.

Deep down, angry.. because he doesn't know what we've been through.

I'm the one who...

Send yourself to study since childhood

I buy stuff for my dad and mom every month, send me supplements every month, check pictures for mom and dad.

I'm the 5th, 10th, so ashamed to ask my father...Once I got a foothold in college, I never thought I'd turn to my father again.

Work to send yourself to study..

In the past, very distressed by people's words.

Until not being myself

Afraid that others will look bad

Too much care until not caring for your own happiness

Make everyone satisfied

Past happiness, it's not really our happiness.

.. What is our true happiness???

J. himself, but "quiet."

Keep your eyes down. Do what we have to do...

After more than 20 years

Jay never... saw someone who took other people well...

People who say other people are lacking and poor.

You know what?

The one who wins is the one who keeps quiet, the one who doesn't have to prove anything to anyone.

People who clench their teeth do not explain (even if everything in their lives wants to punch their mouths), persevere with the opinions of people and persevere with the judgment of people...

There is one person we love saying that..

Can you ask for one thing? "Allow yourself to be happy."

Love other people very much.:: Can love yourself

Our happiness.

We understand that

1. Quiet, independent, stable, secure, thoughtful 1000000%

2. Cut toxic and life will be 100000% good

3. Want to do anything, do anything..

4. Love yourself a lot. Love father, love mother, love benefactor.

5. Stay with the dogs that we raise

6. Eat delicious, useful

7. Have money to spend

What about us? Still care about the villagers??

And when.. will be happy and live the life we want

✨ 🫨

# One day we will know..

♪ Working on silence.. fucking good

😊

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