My son Jordan 1992-2017

Losing a child is one of the most profound and heart-wrenching experiences a parent can face. From my own journey and conversations with others who have faced similar grief, I understand how the pain never truly fades but instead transforms over time. The memory of Jordan, born in 1992 and who passed in 2017, remains alive through shared stories, photographs, and the enduring love that a mother holds in her heart. Many parents describe feeling like their child has wings, a metaphor for the spirit that continues to soar even after passing. This powerful image can bring some comfort, symbolizing freedom, peace, and the hope that their beloved one watches over them from heaven. Expressing this love openly, such as in heartfelt messages or tributes, can help both the grieving parent and their community acknowledge the depth of such a loss. I have found that creating a personal ritual, like writing letters to Jordan or commemorating his birthday with a special activity, has provided a way to channel grief into remembrance. These moments foster connection, even in absence, and invite others to honor the life and legacy of the child. It's also important to remember that seeking support from friends, family, or counseling professionals can be a vital part of navigating the complex emotions that arise. Grief is unique to each person, but you are never alone in facing it. If you are a parent who has lost a child or know someone who has, I hope sharing these reflections offers a sense of solidarity and gentle encouragement. The hurt indeed stays, but so does the love, forever and always.