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When love is not always about two people...

Hello, can anyone stand a relationship with my girlfriend for more than 10 years? It's us!!!!

This boyfriend was the first boyfriend, the first love age, at the age of 17, in grade 5, studying in a different room with his girlfriend.

Skip for a long time because it's not a copy of this post.

Cut to the 10th year of our relationship, we started having a serious conversation about the future, because we were getting out of puberty, wanting to wear wedding dresses at the age we were most confident.

But Fel, because we are not women at home, they expect to be a girlfriend's house, a Chinese family, and our Thai people, so we are not acceptable from the girlfriend's house

I'm not surprised because I know a bit, but I don't think that the day that I have to choose will come. I'm ready to quit. I want to have a clear future. I don't want to get married. I want to wear a wedding dress. But if I have to be reluctant, I forbid myself to let others accept it. I don't do it. I can't make it. I choose to separate. Also, I don't want to make the middleman suffer for life.

I talked more seriously every day until one day my girlfriend said that I would separate the house to live with only the two of us in Pattaya, start a new life together, but the wedding won't make us meet.

We are determined. Should a man like this choose to be the father of his child? Thinking for a long time, he asked him if he wanted to change his surname to just us, a symbol of our sacrifice, and then we enrolled in a marriage without changing his surname.

He thought about his last name, too, but finally agreed.

One day we talked that we want to have children, do not want to have older episodes, so try to release nature once, try only, but think that it is not stuck, because this is very long and never dropped again, should be difficult to stick

Turns out to be stuck

I'm very happy. Let's count the days together. I got the idea that the sex test should be on the anniversary of the baby boomer. So my girlfriend got the idea that I want the wedding registration date to be the same day, so we went to divorce first, haha.

We joke his thoughts but agree because he is happy.

On the 15th anniversary, there is a memory to replace the wedding. But with the fact that there are a lot of people in our house, definitely not convenient to attend, so consult at home what you want to do.

Our parents are also cute. There will be grandchildren and I'm so happy. Just take the adults to eat at their shop, which is not far away. In the neighborhood of Bang Khun Tien itself, I actually invited the men's house. But they refused. It's fine. Because the people we love are all here. We only focus on this. The love that we have is overflowing enough. Don't want from others.

Our parents, our home, accept this son-in-law, understand him and not condemn him, is a very good example for us. That's enough. ❤️

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2025/9/11 Edited to

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