Why I've been Single...
To cut through the red tape and the B.S. of constantly repeating myself, I've been single for almost 16 years now and the main two reasons appear to be because of the fact that I'm on SSDI benefits due to some physical issues and can't work anymore and therefore Medically Retired and with those benefits I get extremely low fixed monthly income and therefore can't afford to rent a simple 1 bedroom apartment in the city of my choice because of today's GREEDY society where people who don't happen to meet certain people's relationships standards. Does anyone believe in Real True Love without Stipulations or Conditions anymore or do they only want a Financial Partnership with Occasional Sexual Benefits and stay in their Loveless Partnerships simply because of the money yet stepping out on their partners for sex or something else, it sickens me 😡😡🤬😤.
Since I've been on Disability Benefits I've been single, because nobody knows how to get Emotionally Connected to someone else or they truly don't care about anyone else but themselves, I'm pretty sure it's latter. Because of ridiculously high rent prices I have been living with my mom and stepdad until my stepdad passed away in September of 2023 I pay rent to my mom and help her out around the house and make sure she isn't alone and she appreciates it. I do what I can, but does that mean that for whatever excuse you want to tell yourself to make you feel superior that I don't deserve you..??? I love with all of my heart and soul, I'm a true believer in commitment to the person I'm with through the good and the bad times, through the rich and the poor times, to know only the good things in life in my opinion are destined for heartache and more insincere than anyone who actually has experienced Reality, if you don't believe that look at the divorce rate amongst the people of the 1% of the world and Famous Celebrities, do you honestly believe that they are truly happy.. I sure don't.
That's my story like it or not but don't judge me until you have been through the exact same things as I was, I didn't choose to have severe nerve damage in my back which affects my left side and leaves me with little to no feeling in my left leg. #realtruelove #neverjudgeabookbyitscover #chooseloveovermoney
Being single for an extended period, especially under challenging circumstances like being on SSDI benefits, raises profound questions about modern relationships and societal expectations. Many individuals find themselves searching for real love, questioning whether it exists without financial ties or ulterior motives. The reality is that emotional connectivity often seems overshadowed by material needs, particularly in a world where societal standards can feel demanding and exclusionary. Additionally, as rental prices soar, many people, including those on disability benefits, share the struggle of finding affordable housing, often resulting in cohabitation with family or friends. This situation can foster strong family bonds but may also deepen feelings of isolation when yearning for a romantic partner. Understanding that others share similar experiences is crucial. It is vital to foster environments (online and offline) that encourage open discussions about love and support, without the overshadowing pressure of financial contributions or societal judgment. Furthermore, the impact of life events, such as the passing of loved ones, can significantly alter one's perspective on relationships. They remind us of life’s unpredictability and reaffirm the need for authentic connections based on love rather than financial stability. In conclusion, embracing our singular journeys, sharing stories, and supporting each other can create a community where real love is valued, paving the way for deeper connections and understanding in our intricate world.
