Must-see ✨ night situation may have something to do with Feng Shui⁉️
Sexless is a problem that is sensitive but should be taken for granted, and it is a theme that we want to solve properly from the perspective of Feng Shui.
In Feng Shui, sex is regarded as Yin and Yang, women are considered Yin, men are considered Yang. Yin and Yang combine to become a perfect body and produce luck. If you become sexless, you will be in a state where Yin and Yang are not mixed, it will not be converted to luck, and it will be a major cause of lowering your luck as a couple.
The cause is that the qi of "water" changes to the qi of "soil." In terms of the five elements of Yin and Yang, sexual things are said to be the qi of "water." Many women become mothers when they enter the family. Since mothers and marriages are the qi of "soil," marriage itself tends to change women from "water" to "soil" attributes. When a wife becomes like a mother who only takes care of her husband, it strengthens the qi of "soil" and makes it difficult for the husband to see his wife as a sexual object. Through marriage, men and women come together, become one complete body, and it should be an environment where you can raise your luck, but it is a waste.
To improve
1. Position of the bed
Head on the Wall: Creates a Sense of Stability and Security and Makes Partnerships Easy to Set Up
Avoid the front of the door: If you are in front, you will be too distracted and uneasy
2. Color adjustment
Love luck and passion: Red, pink, warm color accessories in one point
Calm and stable: Bed linen and curtains are beige, white and soft brown
3. Clean up and organize
Don't put too many things around the bed.
Underwear and clothes are organized, so that unnecessary things do not block your mind
4. Pair items
Couples and couples strengthen the balance with two accessories (pillow, cushion, lighting)
Place a symbol of affection or partnership
5. Lighting and fragrance
Create a relaxing space with indirect lighting and soft light
Aromas such as lavender and rose enhance the mood
実際に風水を意識して寝室を整えた経験があります。まず、ベッドの頭を壁につけて配置を安定させたことで、心が落ち着きパートナーとの会話が増えました。ドアの正面を避けることで気の流れを調整し、安心感が増したのも良かったです。 色の選び方も大事で、赤やピンクのアクセントを加えると部屋の雰囲気が温かくなり、自然と恋愛意欲も高まりました。逆に落ち着きをもたらすベージュやブラウンをベッドリネンに使うのは、リラックスしやすく快眠につながります。 片付けも欠かせません。ベッド周りに物が多いと気が遮られやすいため、服や下着はきちんと整理整頓。スッキリした空間が心地よい気を呼び込みます。 さらに、二人分の枕やクッション、ペアの照明などを揃えることで、陰陽のバランスが取れやすくなり、関係性の調和が強まります。最後に、ラベンダーやローズの香りを取り入れると、リラックス＆ムードアップ効果で自然と夜のコミュニケーションも増えました。 このように風水の基本原理を生活に取り入れることで、セックスレスの根本的な原因となる陰陽のズレを正せるので、夫婦関係が改善しやすくなったと感じています。寝室はただ寝る場所ではなく、パートナーシップを育む重要な場所ということを意識してみてください。