Must-see ✨ night situation may have something to do with Feng Shui⁉️
Sexless is a problem that is sensitive but should be taken for granted, and it is a theme that we want to solve properly from the perspective of Feng Shui.
In Feng Shui, sex is regarded as Yin and Yang, women are considered Yin, men are considered Yang. Yin and Yang combine to become a perfect body and produce luck. If you become sexless, you will be in a state where Yin and Yang are not mixed, it will not be converted to luck, and it will be a major cause of lowering your luck as a couple.
The cause is that the qi of "water" changes to the qi of "soil." In terms of the five elements of Yin and Yang, sexual things are said to be the qi of "water." Many women become mothers when they enter the family. Since mothers and marriages are the qi of "soil," marriage itself tends to change women from "water" to "soil" attributes. When a wife becomes like a mother who only takes care of her husband, it strengthens the qi of "soil" and makes it difficult for the husband to see his wife as a sexual object. Through marriage, men and women come together, become one complete body, and it should be an environment where you can raise your luck, but it is a waste.
To improve
1. Position of the bed
Head on the Wall: Creates a Sense of Stability and Security and Makes Partnerships Easy to Set Up
Avoid the front of the door: If you are in front, you will be too distracted and uneasy
2. Color adjustment
Love luck and passion: Red, pink, warm color accessories in one point
Calm and stable: Bed linen and curtains are beige, white and soft brown
3. Clean up and organize
Don't put too many things around the bed.
Underwear and clothes are organized, so that unnecessary things do not block your mind
4. Pair items
Couples and couples strengthen the balance with two accessories (pillow, cushion, lighting)
Place a symbol of affection or partnership
5. Lighting and fragrance
Create a relaxing space with indirect lighting and soft light
Aromas such as lavender and rose enhance the mood
私も以前、夫婦の寝室を別にしていた時期があり、それが関係悪化の一因と感じていました。スピリチュアルな観点からも、寝室の環境は夫婦の関係性に大きく影響すると知り、風水を取り入れてみたところ効果を実感しました。 特に、「コレリュシーの寝室」と言われる理想的な寝室環境は、互いに陰陽のバランスを保つために重要です。寝室を分けることが精神的な距離を生む場合も多いため、可能ならば寝室は共有し、風水的に整えることをおすすめします。 具体的には、写真にあったように紫や白を基調にし、赤いハートのクッションで恋愛運を刺激。温かみのあるライトで間接照明を作り、心地よい香りを取り入れることで、自然とムードが上がります。私もラベンダーの香りを取り入れたことでリラックスでき、夫婦のコミュニケーションが増えました。 また、寝具周りを常に整理整頓し、ペアのアイテムを揃えることで、無意識にバランス感覚が育まれ、関係性が良くなったと感じています。スピリチュアルな視点だけでなく、実際の生活でも小さな工夫が大きな変化を生むことを実感しました。 寝室環境を見直し、風水を活用して夫婦の運気と関係性を高めることは、幸せな生活の土台作りです。ぜひ試してみてください。